Experience

[Vapei]

Hi all, abit of an odd one but has anyone explored or had an urge to experiment with another guy? If so what kind and how do you feel about this I am just curious I guess I am 30 years old.

[Ipsquint47]

Hi I’m happily married to a woman but I feel like experimenting with a man too. I like looking at penises and often fantasise about doing things to another man. I played around with my best friend when younger but haven’t done anything with a man since. I’m 47 now.

[Hidden in reply to Ipsquint47]

Couldn't have said it any better myself. Too bad we couldn't just start a post for everyone to share a pic to see the variety out there 😉

[Ipsquint47 in reply to Hidden]

It totally amazes me how penises look so different . Between size soft and hard and the foreskin on the uncircumcised penises are so different to.

[Hidden in reply to Ipsquint47]

Ya the differences are amazing. It is nice to see normal ones too not just porn ones that hit their knees when they walk lol. Flaccid ones are interesting to see as shows a much more relaxed person and then watching them cum alive is nice 😁

[Ipsquint47 in reply to Hidden]

No wonder people get worried about their penis seeing the ones on porn. I prefer smaller penises like I have.

[Hidden in reply to Ipsquint47]

Ya same here. Although would be nice to have one like the movies. I would never wear pants if that was the case lol.

[Ipsquint47 in reply to Hidden]

😂😂 I’m happy with what I have. My wife loves it and said that she wouldn’t want bigger as it would be uncomfortable. I used to worry about my size but not any more.

[Hidden in reply to Ipsquint47]

Thats all that matters! Once you become comfortable with what you have that's where the true fun begins because it's not in the back of your head all the time.

[Vapei in reply to Hidden]

Totally agree. I’mNot very big but certainly know how to use it! 😜 I fantasise a lot to about other men and the things I would like to try. I don’t know why but hairy men do it for me! What about yourselves?

[Ipsquint47 in reply to Vapei]

I shave off all my body hair. I hate being hairy. If I don’t shave I am like a yeti 😜😂😂

[Hidden in reply to Ipsquint47]

I'm with you on that! Smoothness for me too

[Vapei in reply to Ipsquint47]

Even everywhere ? 😉

[Ipsquint47 in reply to Vapei]

Yes I try to remove all my body hair. My wife helps me. I can’t get anyone here to wax me.

[Garrett0606 in reply to Vapei]

I’m with you Vapei—guys with dark body hair turn me on. I’m a ginger myself and like to look at other fair skinned gingers. But if it’s a pink penis or a brown one it’s interesting to me for some reason.

[Vapei in reply to Garrett0606]

Hmmm nice 😉

[GayDadx2]

Growing up I had a girlfriend and eventually married her. We had an ok sex life, but I was always interested in guys.

I started exploring by having sensual male massages, which at first ended up being so embarrassing as I’d be a wet mess leaking precum everywhere. Then become quite erotic as I started to know where / how I like a guys touch.

After then meeting some tiger married guys and having sexual encounters I realised that’s what turned me on more. So I told my wife and we split up.

I’m now married to a guy and have amazing sex. Not as regular as it used to be as we have 2 kids and have been tog leather for 10 years but we know how to really pleasure the other one.

So go and explore. I have a few married mates who I know enjoy some intimacy with a guy outside of their marriage to a women. The society were in is so much accepting of sexuality - and not everything needs a label.

If you identify as straight, and sometimes enjoy sucking a cock or being fucked by a guy - then so what. Just enjoy it, don’t label or overthink it.

[Vapei in reply to GayDadx2]

Thanks for your comment! Think I also got a littleExcited by the thought ☺️Yes I do identify as straight but have these thoughts that I would like to try and experience.

[Carlos68 in reply to Vapei]

Don’t hesitate do it.. I see as just sex, I said it because I know a lot of straight people who just want a “relief from stress”

[Carlos68 in reply to GayDadx2]

Well said I knew a lot of married men who likes to party with gay guys.. ( they pretended to be drunk) my best friend was my first experience and Right away I knew that I will have a difficult life ( Mexican boy in 1980’s)in Mexico.. oh nooo!.. I had my girlfriends and I almost got married, but in my mind I couldn’t do that to a woman or my family.. so I choose to be alone.... until I migrate to the US and I met my partner.It was hard to tell my family, mostly my mother, but I did it because He was the person I was going to spend the rest of my life. and now even if we have not been married for now, we are together for almost 30 years..

[ArchB]

Freud said the only unnatural sex is not having sex, after that it is about PREFERENCE and OPPORTUNITY.

Let me through this into the conversation...

I also have a friend that is a transwoman. Although she still has a penis, she is a woman. Real breasts, ALL hair removed from her body, soft skin... She tells me that she gets hit on most by married middle age guys (time their wives no longer interested in sex).

I am not sexually interested in her (she is a friend), I can appreciate her beauty. She also jokes that so many men hit on her because she only does what men like most: oral and anal. (Try getting a woman to do that... LOL)

Sexually, she is attracted to men, but not romantically. She is romantically AND sexually attracted to women. She says that she gets more women presenting female than she did as male.

Her libedo is insatiable. She can't get enough. Perhaps that is a remanent of being born male.

[Richdick]

Hiya I am a straight man I have been married twice. I have been with my second wife for over 27 years. In all my life up until recently I have never had an interest in other men’s penis. That was up until I had a radical prostatectomy in 2016 and then radio therapy a couple of years later. I never gained my elections back and I missed the feeling of holding a nice hard dick in my hands. I found myself looking on the internet porn site’s and was getting turned on by the sight of an erect penis. I also love watching them cum. I am 100% not attached to men I love vagina and boobs to much to be attached to men. But in searching the internet I have found some beautiful looking woman ! But they have a penis lol so now I find them very erotic they look like a beautiful woman mostly with very nice boobs but with a dick. I imagine what it would be like to go with one of these woman. Aka femboy They have got the feminine face and body I like and the nice hard looking penis I really miss playing with. Especially one who looks like xena LeBlanc.

[Vapei in reply to Richdick]

Have you ever been with a gem boy?

[metalminded in reply to Vapei]

What is a gem boy?

I share much of the same as I’ve read here. I played with my best friend growing up. We used to masterbate together and suck each other.

I am married to a woman for 15 years and in the last 3-4 years I’ve met a couple of men who I’ve had oral with. We have had very passionate make out time and great oral. I haven’t had anal yet but would love to find the right man to do it with.

I’m a small guy too, probably smaller than anyone on this thread. I’m not comfortable with it and it is a cause for my depression.

My wife has always been fine with it and the guys I have been with are too but still bothers me.

[Richdick]

No but I would really like to.

[metalminded]

Thank you. Difficult to get that through my mind. I haven’t had enough experience with women to know how often it would be rejected

[metalminded]

Easier said than done

[Hidden]

Straight here....Have touched and suckled a few...a slippery feel...find interesting to view...go ahead and take in mouth with a clear mind and enjoy for the moment and move on if u want....

[BarrySimpson]

As well as being curious about the opposite sex, it seems to me natural to be curious about how our bodies compare with others of our own sex. Hiding away parts of our bodies makes us even more interested.

Between the ages of 11 and 18 I went to an all-boys school. At first, I found physical education and games an embarrassing ordeal. Our games teacher was a bully. He made us queue up naked outside the showers. 'Close up the queue' he would shout. Penises and bottoms touched. Was he demonstrating his authority or seeking sexual gratificaton? After reaching puberty, embarrassment turned into excitement. Several boys said how much they liked my big, round bum.

We had some pleasurable moments, mostly at home, or in summer, outdoors. When we went swimming, the pool had changing cubicles on two sides. There were not enough for each boy, so we had to share (!). At that age we would become erect very quickly and could not hold back for very long.

Fast forward: in the city where I live, the swimming pools allow women into the men's rooms (but not vice versa). I used to go swimming 2 or 3 times a week. I would always take off my briefs in the shower and walk into the men's room unadorned. Soon the other men would drop their towels and we compared - even more arousing if there were ladies present. Soon I would retire to the showers or to a private cubicle for relief massage, most often with a man, sometimes with a woman if the opportunity arose.

[Hidden]

Yes totally...I would consider myself bi but can't beat feeling and playing with a cock that isn't yours.