I tried trimming the hair, would prefer not to shave my husband, partly for fear of cutting him and partly for his comfort, but have to change bedding 6 days out of 7.I use pants and pads, protective waterprof bedding etc. but we still wake up to a wet bed. In fact our bed has 2 single matresses but one has to be stripped nearly every day. I bought a tumble dryer but would love to hear a solution. I can manage his incontinence during the day with good timing and hope he's not ready for a catheter yet.