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Dad’s 8 year PSP journey at its end

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My father was diagnosed with PSP in 2016 .. which was post a few backward falls .. I had noticed a few changes besides balance issues like not blinking for long .. I had myself diagnosed the PSP with Google search before the neurologist confirmed the same !

I understood that there was little one could do about the progression but what was in my hands was give the necessary support and care as the condition progressed . Besides the physical care that was needed , we would mentally engage with him with games and talks that he could make sense of . What a challenging 8 year journey it has been for him and us as a family. Last 3 plus years he was on peg tube formula milk feed as his ability to swallow diminished. Around 2.5 weeks we noticed abdominal distension and took him to the hospital. Medication didn’t make it better .. and the gastro informed that the gut isn’t able to process any more and the motility has been compromised. So was referred to palliative guidance. Now we have been home for a week and he’s getting only minimal water with gut medication. He’s in the last phase of life .. could be days or weeks . A very tough time and praying it’s a comfortable and peaceful transition for him . He’s taught us how love is the best medicine.

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Bergenser

Dear Dravid100

I'm sorry to hear that your dad and your family are going through the most difficult part of the PSP journey.

Sending virtual hugs your way.

It shines through that you have been supporting him in the best way possible, keeping him engaged and surrounded by love.

I wish you comfort and strength as you allow him to enter into rest and peace. 🫂💜🌻

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Dravid100 in reply toBergenser

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Leosta

Your father taught you well. You've been an admirable son. I will add my prayers for a peaceful end to his suffering. 🙏

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Dravid100 in reply toLeosta

🙏

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LittleOllie

My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time

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Dravid100 in reply toLittleOllie

🙏❤️

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Kelmisty

So difficult, but you are there, it’s all you can do. Xx

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Dravid100 in reply toKelmisty

🙏

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GonnaMissDaddy

Prayers said for your dear father and family. I lost my Daddy to PSP as well and was his caregiver for the last 2 years. It might be the most difficult thing you ever do but also a most honorable one.

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Dravid100 in reply toGonnaMissDaddy

Sorry to hear about your Daddy 🙏 Sending love and prayers 🙏 Tq for your kind words 🙏

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Dosco

My wife assed away last November. PSP is a grinding and relentless disease. My wife showed immense courage even as she faced the end. We can only learn from the example of these courageous sufferers and bear our grief with love, respect and courage.

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Dravid100 in reply toDosco

.Sorry to hear of your wife’s passing.🙏 Couldn’t agree more on the love, respect and courage we show to our courageous loved ones 🙏

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LuisRodicioRodicio

Hard times. My solidarity. A big hug.

Luis

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Dravid100 in reply toLuisRodicioRodicio

🙏🧡

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Bertieandpiper

My thoughts are with with you and your family.

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Dravid100 in reply toBertieandpiper

🙏🧡

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BellaRooney

I had a similar experience with my Dad, he’d also had the disease for 8 or so years, he passed away last year.

It was peaceful and gentle in those last few weeks, he seemed to ‘lose’ the disease and looked more comfortable than he had done for a long time.

It was tough but I was glad to have been a part of his journey and he snuck out of this world when l wasn’t in the room but that’s the way he would’ve wanted to go, no fuss!

Sending you strength

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Dravid100 in reply toBellaRooney

My heartfelt prayers for your dad and hugs to you 🙏 Grateful for the wisdom that this journey gives us . Tq for your kind sharing 🙏

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Pinkcamelia in reply toBellaRooney

Love how you said. Your dad snuck out of this world. I know when it’s my husbands turn to go. That’s how he would like to go. Sounds so peaceful.

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Independenceday

My dad has just passed on the 10th after fighting PSP for around 8 years also, passed from pneumonia 😢, I am keeping strong due to knowing he is know pain free and at peace.

Sending big hug’s through this hard time your family is facing 🤗

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Dravid100 in reply toIndependenceday

My sincere healing prayers 🙏 The thought that he’s free from his struggles and free is true. I keep reminding myself that dad is going to find peace . Tq for your support 🙏

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caralime1956

So sorry to hear if your psp journey, I wish you strength for the days and weeks ahead. My husband also had it for 7 years ,though initially told PD . It is his Anniversary next week & can't believe it's been 3 years since his passing.

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Dravid100 in reply tocaralime1956

Tq so much for your kind words 🙏🧡 Much love 🙏

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bichonbear1

It’s a very cruel and relentless disease. Thinking of you during this very horrible time.

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Dravid100 in reply tobichonbear1

Tq so much 🙏🧡

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