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My dad is finally at peace after suffering from this awful disease over the last 11 years. I think he waited for my mum to go home before he passed away. I’m hoping that the image of his last breath will leave my memory and the wonderful memories of my dad will take that place soon.

Thank you to this group for all the answers to my questions over the years and for your posts that have helped me.

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dollydott

I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad.

Eleven years is a long time. Your dad is so free now.

Take comfort that you were with him to the end he will have felt safe and loved. The wonderful memories will return

Sending you and your mum much love

Lynda ⚘⚘

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Yvonneandgeorge in reply todollydott

So sorry xxxxx

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Melhukin in reply toYvonneandgeorge

Thank you

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Melhukin in reply todollydott

Thank you

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NannaB

❤️XxxX

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Toddet

So sorry for your loss. Please do find comfort for him and for you that he had you there at the end. It is hard to watch someone pass, I know, but sadly part of life’s rich pattern.

Time now to remember the good times pre illness. Sending love xx

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Melhukin in reply toToddet

Thank you

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Heady

Sending big hug and much love

Lots of love

Anne

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Melhukin in reply toHeady

Thank you

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Dadshelper

You and your family have my deepest condolences. Remember the good times and try not to dwell on what the disease did to him.

Ron

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Melhukin in reply toDadshelper

It’s going to be hard but I’m going to try my hardest.

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HilsandR

Completely understand how you are feeling right now. Words at this time can often feel so empty but from my experience the good memories will fill your thoughts when the time is right and that's what you need to head for, again when you are ready. Try to think of his last breath as his release from this awful disease. I hope it helps you to know that the folks on this site totally get it even though we can't change anything.

Best wishes to you and your family at a time that is so very difficult.

Hils

xx

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Melhukin in reply toHilsandR

Thank you for your words.

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doglington

So very sorry but I know in time you will value what you shared.

You know you were there for him - and so did he.

love from Jean xx

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Melhukin in reply todoglington

Thank you

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Tippyleaf

Senfing you lots of love st this sad time

Tippy xxxx

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Melhukin in reply toTippyleaf

Thank you

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Sam_S

I am so sorry for your loss.

May he rest in peace !

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Melhukin in reply toSam_S

Thank you

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AnneandChris

Sending you love at this sad time. Take solace in the fact that he is now at peace, the battle is done.

Anne x

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Melhukin in reply toAnneandChris

Thank you

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Inparadise

Very sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs for you and your family.

Kerry

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Melhukin in reply toInparadise

Thank you

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acorneater

My heart goes out to youx Acorneater.

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Melhukin in reply toacorneater

Thank you

So sorry for your loss.

Your dad is free now and 'whole' again and walking by your side.

Be good to yourself and memories of your dad before this horrid illness, will return.

Thinking of you and sending big hugs

Sue x

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VonTripe

God Bless you and God bless this helpline and the comfort that we can give each other

As Anne said this battle is done you have been the very best you could x x

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Melhukin in reply toVonTripe

Thank you

A big hug.

Luis

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Tunupup

Feel for you. Unless you have witnessed this terrible illness no one has a clue how dibilitating it is. My sister suffered but never complained. My heart goes out to you xxx

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Willow_rob

We are so sorry for your loss. He is at peace now. Our thoughts are with you and your Mother.

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AJK2001

Thinking of you at this sad time. xxx

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Megabrew88

So sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace. 🙏❤️

Mx

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Trillo

So sorry for for your loss. 11yrs is a long time with this terrible illness. At peace now.

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Cazash

So so sorry for your loss. We have also been with our dad as he passed last week too. Totally walking almost hand in hand with you on the roller coaster path. Take comfort he’s free of pain. You were there at the end and he knew he was loved and cared for by you and your mum

The good memories will return. It’s only been two weeks for us since dad passed and already people visiting talk of a particular memory and it’s slowly but surely replacing that picture in my head of dad’s final breath

Take the time now to grieve and you’ll start the journey for us all that is ‘after PSP’

Huge hugs to you and mum

💕 Caz

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catherine_h

my thoughts are with you and your family. 11 years is a very long time but you will be proud and get comfort in that you were with him for his whole journey. I hope the happy memories thay made you want to be with him come flooding back, and you have some laughs in amongst the tears xx

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georgeg25

My sincere condolences on your loss. Hold him in your heart and he will walk beside you for ever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 💔🙏

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Cianodude

♥️♥️

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Katiebow

Sorry to hear that you lost your Dad after an 11 yr struggle with this disease. He is in a better place now away from the suffering. I'm sure in time you will remember him before his illness. Xxx

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Bipa

May he Rest In Peace in the arms of our Lord and his memories be Eternal🙏

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ncgardener799

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Let time help you heal and recover from 11 years of loving caregiving. Be kind to yourself and let the happy memories return. May you find joy in the days ahead as you Dads suffering is over.

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bevricas

I lost my precious husband to PSP early this Friday morning. He fought for 10 years and was the bravest person I know. He never complained. He was a helicopter pilot during the Viet Nam war. I also have the vision of his last struggling breaths in my mind. I hope that both you and I will heal and remember all the wonderful times.

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Mtorres9235

I don’t think you ever get over missing the presence of someone you love. But time gives you sweet memories of their gifts and knowing life is short brings it’s own gift. Here’s to your journey, may you be able to notice the beauty surrounding your life as you can.

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Dickenson2

So very sorry to hear of your loss but no free of this terrible disease xx

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raincitygirl

My sincere condolences to you in the loss of your father. Free at last, but a heartsore loss of this important and dear man in your life. Hugs to you Melhukin XXX

Anne G.

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daddyt

So very sorry for your loss. One day when you look back on this journey, your tears will be replaced with smiles as you look back on the wonderful memories you have.

Tim x

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SewBears

The disease takes away our loved ones ability to find words sometimes and this is where I go when I hear that someone else has succumbed to this wretched disease. I’m really sorry for your loss and I wish I could word it better than that. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Sending hugs from I SewBears

Xoxo

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