Thank you to everyone for the wonderful advise, helpful hints and genuine outpouring of kindness.
Last night resulted in two more falls ( I woke up for both). The freezing continued and we added a 101.5 fever to boot. I gave him two Tylenol and he went to sleep. As God is my witness he woke up this morning as if nothing happened!!! Now my head is definately spinning.
I took my super hero cape out of the dryer this morning and attacked the day with an agenda! The day has gone well. Saw the primary Dr. and while the fever broke he too thought John had an infection of some kind. Went to PT later and got more help there.
John really doesn't remember much of the past few days. A blessing I'm sure.
Feeling better and hopefully better equipped to face this daunting journey we are all / or have been on.
There really are angels-so blessed to have you all in my life.
Thank you, Alice xo