Many thanks to all who replied to my earlier post - lots of support and helpful tips.
The manual hoist is being used and a ceiling hoist will be fitted on Weds. Extra care has been agreed and from tomorrow we will be getting 4 calls a day - a double up on the morning one.
GP has been and prescribed Fortisan extra nutritional drinks as well as trying hyocine patches to dry up the mucus in the throat.
The botox injections Valerie had 10 days ago seem to be easing the rigidity in her upper left arm. the lower arm and hand is still stiff but at least we have some progress. Next appointment booked in 3 months when hopefully we can try other limbs.
Sorry I can't remember who asked me about botox at the Brass Monkey but I hope you read this and pursue it with your consultant - it's worth a try.
Well I'm breathing again and getting to grips with the new regime !
Thanks again to everyone.
Bryan