Whatever happens, please don't second-guess yourself, although that is easier said than done. I know: the medical team didn't recommend a PEG and I didn't fight for it, and I wonder now whether I should have. No point in that! You made the decision with the best intentions and with all the best information available at the moment you made it. You made the right choice. I hope your mother improves and you have good times yet, but please be kind to yourself as you go. Love and peace, Ec
It’s probably different for everyone depending on how they were when it was fitted. The hospice recommended C had it fitted while he was still eating liquidized food well so it was ready when he couldn’t. They said there was only a small window of time when it could make a difference until being too late . C refused at that point and it was a very long time after that, over a year, when he made the decision to have it. He wasn’t eating enough, he had lost weight and his skin was breaking down. He was not, however, emaciated as he was quite a big man before he started losing weight. There was a marked change in him two weeks after fitting it, mainly his skin became flawless and his large pressure sore had closed leaving a large scar. I had to start gradually but very soon, after consultation with the HENS who came in fairly regularly, I was giving him 2000 calories of liquid feed a day plus he was still eating creamy chocolate puddings, honey enriched yoghurt etc. He gained weight, I think within a month. Folk react differently to the same procedure. The PEG gave my husband and extra 10 months of outings to the coast, gardens etc. and making memories time. When he decided he didn’t want to be fed any more I asked him if he regretted having it fitted and he hid his thumb, meaning no. Asked the same question, some may say yes but I hope your mom will soon improve. It won’t bring back her speech but as she gains strength it may make her feel a bit better.
Once the body has been subject to dehydration and weight loss, it takes a good period of time for the body to recover. At least a litre and a half of water per day is required. With the peg it is so easy to manage this. IT JUST TAKES TIME. Massage the limbs with body lotion to help the muscles re cover and try to make the person stand. Talk sing make anything go to let the brain work. My wife is nearly two years on the peg and still tells me to shut it. Just give love nagging and explanations.
We are in the debate mode for a PEG which his neurologist suggested. My husband eats regular food, three good meals a day, lots of oil and butter. But he is losing weight. At first it was enviable; now not so much. We do laugh because years ago he wanted to get his weight down to what he was in college. He is that and then some...Be careful what you wish for!
Do you have the support of a nutritionist. The one who looked after my husband was wonderful, she weighed him regularly and altered the prescription for feeding accordingly. For us peg feeding meant that we were able to lead some semblance of a normal life, with outings to the cinema etc until very soon before he died. I don't think the Peg prolonged his life but made the last six months better.
This forum is Godsend. Reassuring to hear from people who "get it"; thank you everyone who responded.
@Kathryn, yes, i've engaged a nutritionist. Gastro surgeon who fitted the PEG told that my mom has gastroparesis due to PSP ( slowing down of intestines ) so the feed is restricted to 50cc/hr, 19 times/day, totaling 950ml/day giving her 1400Kcal/day ( they experimented with feed rate from 30cc up to 100cc/hr and finally settled on 50cc/hr )
Urgent. Get hold of your GP/District nurse and get them to put you intouch with a dietician. The dietician will vist, make an assessment and will recommend a liquid nutrient suitable for a PEG tube. My wife, now receives, delivered free, and has thrived it on for over two years Ensure and Fortisip. The liquid food, delivered every month, comes with, if needed, 50ml syringes and a reopair kit. The diatician visits every three months and reasses.
If you have questions, please get in touch. ivansayer@talktalk.net
My husband has been with the PEG tube since October 25, and just now - two months later, he has gained two pounds. Not that much but he isn't loosing weight at least. The feedings are going good so far but have had our times with him fiddling with the clamp and broke it off and formula was all over him and his bed (at the nursing home) but it could be put together again and all was well after getting clean bedding and clothes. Just a little dip in the road I guess. I don't think he regrets the tube, and our family supported his decision. He is getting a little stronger it seems also. The other symptoms of PSP are still attacking him and it's the hugs that he looks forward to everyday. It isn't easy watching but you put on your brave face and do what you can. I hate this PSP. Someone needs to find a cure soon. Merry Christmas from Joyce in Minnesota.
Hi there. Your mum's symptoms aren't going to change but her overall strength in dealing with them will improve. My hubby had his for 9 months before he died. He'd never looked healthier.
Thanks Abilitydesigns. I was beginning.to think it all sounded too good to be true. I am so sorry about your mum but I hope the PEG feeding is keepimg up her strength. It's a very difficult decision to make but so far my husband has indicated that he would want to be PEG fed. Good to hear from you.
Hi. My mom got a PEG in Oct 2017. It’s about 10 weeks now.
When the PEG is put , the neuro medication is taken off for a day or two with a IV FEED given . That itself makes the patient groggy and recovery time could be 7-10 days to have the level of alertness pre PEG - got to learn this later only.
Physical strength you should be able to see in about a month or so. If she was mobile earlier , neuro plus physio would be able to assess level of Re-mobilisation in case she is not walking now. Take periodic weights and match off with food / Protein / calorie intake since a dietician would review those . A periodic blood test would reveal how good are indicators like Sodium, Iron , haemoglobin etc .
My guess is the dietician will increase calorie and protein intake slowly once the body gets used to a level of feed.
And yes, this does cause constipation on account of the liquid nature of intake . Could be once in 4-5 days as well. Ask the dietican if blended fibrous fruit is ok to be given.
I just made a decision for my loved one 92. Had peg fitted yesterday after stroke swallow not back. Heart breaking thinking he cannot have his cake tea and ice cream he loves but felt no choice only other one was risk feeding and they would withdraw feed tube i just could not watch that starve. I am just praying we can keep him longer have some sort of life. But they say dont think he will walk again. I do not want him in a home but frightened i cannot manage i have a disability could never lift him. Good luck. Julie
Thank you. I just hope he does not keep getting infections. He had pneumonia a few weeks ago. He still still sleeps a lot then awake talks sometimes cannot understand then ok again. So worried i cannot manage at home i hate the thought of a home.
Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.
Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.
Securing PEG tube
PEG tube - our experience
Urgent advice on fitting a PEG
To have a peg or not
