So, since I last ranted I have some good news, my mother in law had come to the conslusion that her being in a home is the best thing for her, in her own words "i think I will be better there" Hallelujah!!!!!
I called her brother to let him know and he was the first one to visit her and let her know that she did make the right decission. I understand everyone is busy, everyone has family and things to do, it's life. But all it took was a simple call to let someone know that she needed to talk, and they came.
My daughter insisted on coming to set up her room, I think it was because she wanted her picture front and center...she is 18 with a big heart. She talked to someof the people in the home and when an elderly man stopped her and told her she was beautiful she told him that he wasn't so bad himself...too funny
My mission for the time my mother in law has left is to make her happy, it's that simple, and if everything else has to be on hold then so be it.
We were lucky to find such amazing help for the past year, and yes, because we had that help we kind of slided on certain things. But now she is moving to another stage in her life and we have to re-arrange our lives a little.
This SUnday we are moving her beloved couch, the one she is spending 20 hours a day on, I hope that with all the confusion of people around her now she gets up and becomes a part of the community...
On to bigger and better things wish her luck