Freds 68 today

[Debbieann]

He wanted to go away for his birthday, so we are in Great Yarmouth for a few days, we have a sea view from our room, but I don't think I captured that in the photo!!!

A happy post from me for a change!

Love Debbie xx

[Kevin_1]

Wonderful!

Thank you for sharing the happiness.

xx

[abirke]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUSBAND OF DEBBIEANN!!

[NannaB]

Thanks for posting a cheery post. Have a wonderful break away.

Happy birthday Fred.

X

[easterncedar]

Happy Birthday, Fred!

[DenB]

Happy A birthday Fred! I hope both of you have a lovely break away.

Love to you both xx

[MaiSalah]

Happy birthday Fred...enjoy the happiness and break.. xxx

[Satt2015]

Good for you Debbie and many happy returns to Fred!! Enjoy your precious time! X 🍷

[Heady]

Treasure the moment Debbie, no matter what PSP throws at you both, it can't take away memories!

Happy birthday Fred, hope Debbie has treated you the way you expect to be treated on your birthday!!!

Lots of love

Heady

[Debbieann in reply to Heady]

Debbie's done her bestest! Xx

[Heady in reply to Debbieann]

Well Done!

Lots of love

Heady

[Yvonneandgeorge]

Happy birthday Fred hope you and Debbie have a lovely break in Great Yarmouth, with lots of happiness 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[Doglinton]

Happy Birthday, Fred. Enjoy your time in Great Yarmouth. Make good memories.

love, Jean x

[ketchupman]

Happy birthday Fred! You have an awesome, loving wife.

Ketchupman

[baird35]

Hope you both enjoyed your break love May B

[psplife]

That is awesome DebbieAnn. Enjoy every minute of it. How I miss not seeing my guy. He has been gone for one month and it has been very lonely month with out him. I miss everything about him. So hug your hubby and just take it all in. Wish your hubby a happy birthday from all of us on this site.

Huge hug,

Nikkie

[Heady in reply to psplife]

Hi Nikkie, just to let you know, i am thinking of you!

Sending big hugs and lots of love

Heady

[psplife in reply to Heady]

Thanks Heady. I appreciate you thinking of me. A huge hug right back at you. So grateful for friends on this site. Even though my guy has passed and my heart is so heavy, I pray for a cure to this awful disease. No one should have to suffer like this and for all of us caregivers---our loved ones are so blessed to have wonderful people like us.

Lots of love Heady.

Nikkie

[Heady in reply to psplife]

Like to tell my dear husband that!!! Being really awkward at the moment. Thought he had a chest infection starting, but his chest is clear, so don't know what's up. He's not a happy bunny and doesn't want me near him. This damned disease is so cruel, it's taking away any enjoyment in his precious time left with me.

Lots of love

Heady

[psplife in reply to Heady]

That is terrible Heady. It is such an unpredictable disease!! Good one day and the next can be just so terrible. Sometimes I think they act like that so that they distance themselves from us. Maybe they think it makes things easier on us but we know that it makes it worse. Hang in there my friend Heady. A huge hug going your way.

Reach out any time.

XOXO

Nikkie

[Heady in reply to psplife]

Thanks Nikkie. You too!!!

Lots of hugs and love

Heady

[goldcap in reply to psplife]

Nikkie, good observation. I never thought of it that way before. How are you holding up? Don't hole up at home. get out and get some fresh air. Walk or do some kind of exercise. See a film. Anything to distract you for a little while. Hope your son and daughter are holding up ok as well. I know this is a difficult time for all of you and I am glad you are not alone there, and you have each other. Did you have a memorial service for him? Sometimes going through pictures and making a collage of memories is very cathartic. I know I keep pushing a grief counselor but I think it will help as well. ( I come from a therapy background so sorry if I keep pushing this:).

Please take care of yourself and your children. Sending you much love and massive hugs.

Jayne

[psplife in reply to goldcap]

Hi Jayne

Thanks for your message and keep on sending them. I have to remind myself that I don't have to stay home all the time, but it was already part of my life so sometimes I get so discouraged about getting out. One of my old friends from high school sent me a message earlier and wants to go out for dinner tonight. I said yes to her, but I am just not in the mood. I have to do this and try and take advantage of every invite that makes me feel comfortable.

Thanks for asking about the kids. They are doing okay, but some days are tougher than others. They are both busy with university work and both have small part time jobs.

My hubby's service was absolutely beautiful! We started the ceremony with a color guard ceremony (he was a veteran) and he had friends and family speak of all the amazing things he did in his life time and how he touched so many lives. We had about 500 people attend the service--it was packed. So many people in attendance confirms that my guy was an amazing man and so well respected. I keep getting emails, cards, phone calls etc. and all of that is helping us deal with our loss. We miss Les so much. I still can't sleep in our bedroom--it makes me very sad.

I am hanging in there and I am just so blessed to have my kids at home with me. Every new day will help heal my heart.

Huge hug to you Jayne and thanks again for reaching out.

XOXO

Nikkie

[Katiebow]

Great Yarmouth, great memories and hopefully great weather there too. Happy belated birthday to Fred.

Love Kate xxx

[goldcap]

Debbi, there is just something about sea air that is so healing. Do enjoy and thanks for sharing!