My mum has been reluctantly in care for 5 months. My dad at 84 has looked after her for about 5 years and could no longer cope. Myself and siblings all work and have families. She has visitors once or twice a day and she has made it clear that she is unhappy being there. She is now saying horrible things. especially to my dad, such as she wouldn't have done this to her mother. She is calling him evil and wicked. It is destroying dad and all of us are at our wits end with it. She can hardly speak but the only words we do get are take me home and all the insults. Is anybody else in this situation and how do you cope. Love to you all X Julie
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