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I underwent RALP about 9 months ago and continue to suffer from overt (i.e., not stress or urge) incontinence. After surgery, my surgeon said that he did not see any reason why I would not regain full continence. I work diligently with a PT on pelvic floor and core exercises. Although there has been some progress, I am still at about 3 pads per day and my QOL is very bad. I had one urologist tell me I have probably plateaued and may want to start discussing surgery (sling, artificial sphincter) while another urologist said that I should continue to see progress for 1 or perhaps 2 years. At this point, no one is suggesting I will regain continence, although I realize they are just trying to set expectations. I would like to hear from others who have had longer term incontinence (ideally "overt") - did it continue to improve much after 9 months or so, did you end up having surgery, do you have any advice to offer?

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Magnus1964

Some drugs can increase UI. This happened to me with xtandi. My research doctor says no, but the the timing was too coincidental. We shall when I go off xtandi.

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Grumpyswife in reply to Magnus1964

What you said about Xtandi causing incontinence is coincidental with my husband, too. He will probably soon quit Xtandi as well so will be curious to see if incontinence improves. If I recall he stopped Xtandi for a month or so but saw no improvement.

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Magnus1964 in reply to Grumpyswife

I will probably stop xtandi sometime in the fall. This could be interesting. Keep in touch.

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dadzone43

I cannot reply based on experience, as I have regained my continence. I wish it were the same for you. That said, the two-year time frame seems to be pretty standard in the urologic surgical world. That is the time-frame they give for recovery of the nerve plexuses that were cut, bruised, burnt, stretched in the procedure. Yeah, it is a generality probably based more on guess than science. Might be time to think about an artificial sphincter.

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gamma909 in reply to dadzone43

Thanks. I will probably give this at least another 4 months or so and see whether I can get to a condition I can live with - crossing my fingers that the overall healing process will continue to progress and provide some additional benefit. The thought of more surgery after what I've been through is rather depressing. Some folks I've spoken to believe that the artificial sphincter surgery is actually worse/more complex than the original prostate surgery.

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dadzone43 in reply to gamma909

I hope you will keep the forum updated.

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Tall_Allen

The guys I've talked to who got an AUS love them.

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Currumpaw

I have read good reviews and bad posted by guys that had an AUS 800 "installed". Sort of an out patient procedure for some but overnight for others. In the end it works for most.

In the meantime would a Texas catheter make your life a little more enjoyable? At least you would have the bag strapped to your leg to collect any leakage.

Currumpaw

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gamma909 in reply to Currumpaw

Thanks - that is consistent with what I've read and heard. One potential issue with AUS is that they can periodically need to be repaired or replaced (within 5 years for some folks) so similar to deciding PCa therapy, I have a lot to think through. Leakage not bad enough for a catheter.

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Currumpaw

I have read that the "cuff" sometimes needs to repositioned. This one link that that has info--old but still relevant, however, the AUS must have been improved over the years as well as experience with it and "installing" it.

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Proximal artificial sphincter cuff repositioning for ...

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A Texas catheter is sort of like a condom. It slips over the penis and is connected to a tube. My father in-law was "fitted" with one when he was in the hospital. It wouldn't be annoying or painful.

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gamma909 in reply to Currumpaw

Thanks - I will continue to some research while giving everything a bit more time to heal. Still hopeful I can get to a manageable state.

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Grumpyswife

According to the latest urologist we consulted, there can be complications with the such devices as one ages and has senility or dementia as you have to remember to empty them. Not doing so can cause lots of problems worse then wet pants. We had never had that explained before and is something to consider if you have dementia and/or at the mercy of someone to help you with toileting.

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ng27868168

Here's my 2 cents. I had radical PCa surgery 25 years ago at age 52. Had mild incontinence for several years after but as time went on it became worse to the point where I had basically no control. (possibly due to heart related medication) I visited my regular Urologist who only did the sling method which he said really only worked best on females. He recommended another Urologist in the Dept who did the Artificial urinary Sphincter (AUS) procedure. I went to see him and he said I was a good candidate for the AUS, so I had it installed about 6 years ago. It has worked great! No more pads and no more worrying about accidents. It basically works like a hose clamp around your urethra which is inserted just above the penis and is operated by a small on-off button which was inserted in my scrotum. When the normal urge to pee comes, I simply reach down, squeeze the button and it opens the urethra clamp allowing the bladder to empty, and automatically shuts the clamp after about a minute or so. The surgery is minor, and after about 2 weeks of healing, the on-off button is activated and you go on living with dry pants! I noticed one comment here mentioned possible future issues with AUS, but the urologist told me everything that could possible go wrong can easily be fixed. I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND this procedure, BUT DON'T WAIT as scar tissue can develop in the urethra from future catheter use or radiation. Also a Medical bracelet or necklace is needed to be worn in case of an Emergency Room insertion of a catheter as the on-off button needs to be deactivated which is a simple procedure known by all ER personnel. Again, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS PROCEDURE. Good Luck.

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gamma909 in reply to ng27868168

Thanks for sharing the experience. At present, I will continue to monitor and hopefully improve my incontinence until my next scheduled urology visit (including PSA) which occurs roughly 1 year after the surgery. The MDs I've spoke to have recommended giving it one year before considering any surgery. In the meantime, I will continue to get feedback from men like you and do my homework so that I can have a productive discussion with MD should I need to consider other options.

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julianc

Hi

I had sling fitted 2 years after RP. I wanted sling as it's less intrusive than AUS and non mechanical and I want to stay active and go cycling etc.

It's good but not great ... The flow is greatly reduced when going and emptying fully can be tricky. Also at times feel I need to go more often as I think it causes some minor irritation. I now use no pads but leak a small amount about once a week.

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gamma909

Great feedback - thanks for sharing. I am in a similar situation - extremely active (running, cycling, weightlifting, etc.), not really wanting anything mechanical, and hopefully a simpler surgery. I expect to continue making some progress and will wait a bit longer before making a decision. If you get a chance, let me know what the surgery and recovery were like.

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julianc

Surgery and recovery fine ... much less that robotic RP but still 1night in hospital .. I did need catheter on discharge as could not wee ... But apparently that is fairly normal and increases chance of long term success

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j-o-h-n

COSTCO, Depends purchased by the case for best price. Order on-line (no delivery charge) and delivered in two days in a plain brown (not labeled) carton.

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Friday 07/19/2019 11:23 AM DST

Kurt65 18 months ago I had a green light turp for an enlarged prostate. It left me 100% incontienent as the Surgeon who did it in my home down destroyed the spincter nerve. for 18 miserable months wearing up to 15 pads a day and other devices to try and at least venture out of the house. As luck would have it I worked from home so I could still earn a living. it was so bad every time I stood up anything in my bladder would immediately drain out. An artificial AMS 800 was suggested to me but I resisted for all those months hoping it would get better. Finally I gave in and had the device implanted on 5/22/2019 and activated 6 weeks later. scar is still healing and a little painful. Since the surgery I have not leaked ONE drop. No pads and it works perfectly to date. I can finally live a normal life again . I am 68 years old. I’m sorry I waited and suffered for a year and a half. You should inquire into this device with a competent urologist with experience in the device insertion. Mine was in Charlotte, NC. Good luck to you. You can look up the procedure on You Tube. It’s out patient.

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Thesledge

I am 3 years post surgery,I think, I've kind of lost track since covid 19 and the VA here in Montana practically stopped seeing all but emergency patients. I continued to make progress with my UI even this far out. I rejected the idea of surgical intervention early on because after having prostate ectomy I was done with surgery. I'm at the point now where I have few incidents of UI as long as I remind my self to use the restroom. Regularly. I will some times has some leakage while I'm at work as I CNA, cause by having to lift a patient ect. I have found the biggest factor for me in have UI is just how physically tired I am, at the end of a 12 hour shift at the nursing home the likely hood of a incident is very high. I don't know if this helps any but I really plan to avoid any more surgery in that area of my body, I can deal with the small amount of leakage I have now.

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gamma909 in reply to Thesledge

Thanks and appreciate the encouragement. I also keep working on managing UI and continue to make progress (2 years 5 months since surgery) and have even found some case studies of men regaining most of their continence as far as 4 years out. Like you, I am done with surgery. I saw a physical therapist for 6 months and continue to work on Kegels - it's never too late to build strength. I also found additional pointers on doing Kegels (making them more of a 3-step process to engage all the necessary muscles) which seems to have helped. I focus more on learning to live with the condition rather than get frustrated by it. The most important thing is to hopefully remain free of PCa. Good luck!

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Thesledge in reply to gamma909

I don’t know how you are doing now since it been 3 years since my reply. So I ended up having to have salvage radiation which ended up making me totally incontinent and I’ve not been able to get control of it at all now . The radiation did not help and my cancer has now metastasized. I know it late for me but just wondered if you had successfully beat the UI any ideas that might help me?

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gamma909 in reply to Thesledge

So sorry to hear of your recurrence and the UI. From other men I've spoken to, the salvage radiation can atrophy whatever muscles are left to control UI. One friend who also had this condition after RP and subsequent radiation went years wearing about 10 pads per day while continuing to battle the cancer's return through various treatments. He eventually decided on the artificial sphincter. Once he had it, it was life changing for him and he wished he'd done it a long time ago. Of course, this is only one experience and this is a very personal decision. In my case, the UI has gotten somewhat worse and I continue to adjust to it with the artificial sphincter as an option depending on how bad things get. I have not found any other solutions and no amount of pelvic floor exercises (Kegels and core strengthening) has made much of a difference.

Before making any decision, I suggest a full urological exam - they can rule out any other issues that might be causing UI and can also assess suitability for any surgical intervention (artificial sphincter, sling). Good luck and please keep me posted on how things are going.

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