3/4 weeks pregnant

[Rowing17]

This is my first pregnancy and I'm so anxious that I will miscarry or something isn't right .Im worried about losing the feeling of happiness that I feel right now so much I'm not enjoying it at all .Suppose I want some reassurance that I'm not the only worrier

[alw1986]

You’re not alone!! I was lucky for my first I found out when I was 9 weeks and had a scan straight away as I struggled to get pregnant. Then didn’t have to wait long for my 12 week scan.

Try & not worry & keep thinking of this amazing thing your body is doing! ❤️

[Rowing17 in reply to alw1986]

I have been lucky it's only taken three months to conceive , which is so lucky but finding out so early because I'm impatient is making it hard not to worry .Thank you for your kind words and will keep you posted

[alw1986 in reply to Rowing17]

It’s completely normal! Just try & not wish time away as you’ll never get it back ❤️ yeah please do!! All the love & supportive hugs!

[EJG07 in reply to Rowing17]

We also tried for 3 months and I have just found out we're 4/5 weeks. I'm so nervous every time I go to the loo I'm glad i'm not the only one.. Need to try and relax and enjoy it now!

[Rowing17 in reply to EJG07]

It's really hard to tally relax however I seem to have calmed myself down and started to enjoy knowing that ATM everything as far as I know is ok .i hope all goes well for you keep me posted xx

[Rowing17 in reply to EJG07]

Ejgo7 how are u doing how have you been feeling I'm still worrying but a little less each day and feel super tired and queasy

[EJG07 in reply to Rowing17]

Me too! Worrying a little less but absolutely exhausted! I had bad back pain last week too 😓 are you achy or just queasy?x

[Rowing17 in reply to EJG07]

It's hard to tell about being achy as I row and run four-five times a week so I can't say if that's training or baby

[Amanda9199]

Try not to worry and it will all be OK, I found out when just 3 weeks and I am now 12 &1/2 weeks and have my first scan next week. It will be ok I am sure x

[LindsayB24]

Hun ( I know this is easier said than done) but calm down. The more you panic and stress the more your baby will feel the stress. Enjoy the excitement. Think positive thoughts. Try and do some breathing exercises when feeling anxious, or if you have things to do places to go people to see to try and get you to relax. The more you relax the more your baby relaxed. If you think things are getting too much book to see a midwife. I was told by the doctors receptionist when booking to see a midwife "oh you can't see a midwife till your 12 weeks" if you get this explain you have concerns and worries and need some advice before. Good luck sweetie. Here for you. Xxx

[Rowing17 in reply to LindsayB24]

Thank you I've been a lot calmer since writing my fears down and have found audio books are my way of calming down . Xx

[hxanita]

Hey Hun, I felt exactly the same. Especially after two consecutive missed miscarriages. Now 22 weeks pregnant and even tho everything is going well I can’t help but worry. Some days I feel so stressed and anxious it hurts my bump. I can’t shake this off as I’m so desperate to get a healthy baby at the end of it. You will be just fine I’m sure. Trust me the feeling of uncertainty is something I have certainly experienced and am every single day. I am very grateful for each day/ week that goes by and my little boys moved make it all worthwhile Love xxx