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A learning curve

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Crumbs this thing is unforgiving isn't it?😥A three hour hot and busy car journey was no picnic did not leave me at my best. When we got to our daughter's I had to go to bed instead of playing with our grandson in the garden 😞

More travelling tomorrow 🚗

I think I'm starting to realise what life with PMR is going to mean 😒

I am glad to have found this forum for respite and support 🫂

Just having a pity party, feeling emotional.

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer

Early days for you… so yes it is a bit of a shock how previously simple things can upset the applecart.

You will learn to deal with it, so don’t be too disheartened - and there will be other days for playtime with grandson.

Old cliche, but take each day as it comes… and travelling can be very tiring for all…

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123-go

You were right to go to bed. You have already learned a really important lesson-‘Listen to your body’. …proud of you 🏆. There will be other opportunities to play with your grandson which you will both enjoy if you’re not worn out.

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LittleJane in reply to 123-go

Aw, shucks, thanks ☺️

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123-go in reply to LittleJane

😁

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Well done - you didn't fall into the trap of insisting you carry on as normal! You do learn how to manage it - I won't say better but differently. I think frequent stops on the way help. I refuse to say what time I will arrive - that takes away the pressure if there are any delays. Hope tomorrow is better.

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Grammy80

That car ride would have done me in.....be kind to yourself and try to 'do when you feel like doing.' I recall the beginning of my journey and I was so overwhelmed and would get down. As your body becomed more tolerant of meds and used to its new limits....the days will become easier, honest. I'll bet a good cry would help....the forum helped me do that a few weeks back and afterward, I felt so much better. I guess I was looking for permission.💞

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LittleJane in reply to Grammy80

Thank you Grammy, you know just what to say when I need to hear it x

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bromley621

Join a local Support Group if you can. Meet others who really know what you are talking about.

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byebyebicycle

Yes it is a learning curve, a realisation, things will never be the same but a very decent life is still there. I look back to the days that I could hardly put a shirt on or tie my shoe laces, 9 months ago. Now I can function pretty well and I can swim and walk reasonably well at I estimate to least a 50% level of what I was doing well before my PMR diagnosis. I do not know how much better I can get but hope to push that to 70% 😀.

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