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I sometimes think my husband isn’t interested in my PMR but then this happened.

The other day I mowed our well overdue lawn. He came home from work, walked onto it and smiled and asked “how long did that take you?” I replied, “I don’t know I didn’t count I just kept stopping to rest because……”. He interrupted me and said, “because you ran out of spoons.” 😂😂

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Koalajane profile image
Koalajane

Bless him

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer

Wow, see they do listen sometimes 😂😅

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And how are you now? Had you got enough spoons left to cook his tea?

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MiloCollie in reply toPMRpro

😂no he does tea. Don’t get me wrong he doesn’t expect me to do anything but he works six long days a week and I’m retired early so I potter where I can. Just doing a few bits of diy before decorators come soon.

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Viv54 in reply toPMRpro

😂😂😂

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AnniesRyder5

I think I might have found some spoons to throw at him😅

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Viv54 in reply toAnniesRyder5

My thoughts exactly !

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Rugger in reply toAnniesRyder5

You don't know the 'Spoon Theory'? See DorsetLady's reply below with link. He was being sympathetic!

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Burnley1959

Who said what and when ????

LBM1953 profile image
LBM1953

I know I am being thick but I don't get it. What's with the spoons? Is it 'cos I'm of the male species...??!!

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer in reply toLBM1953

Spoons theory explained here- applicable to all autoimmune &/or chronic illnesses -

rarainbow.wordpress.com/201...

Couldn’t possibly comment on gender understanding -or not! 😳

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Japsquar in reply toDorsetLady

makes so much sense. made me cry. thank you!

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PMRproAmbassador in reply toJapsquar

Have you met the gorilla as well? One of the links here:

healthunlocked.com/pmrgcauk......

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Japsquar in reply toPMRpro

thanks, will check it out

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MiloCollie in reply toPMRpro

😂😂love the gorilla. Mines not tame yet and it’s quite attention seeking! 😂

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PMRproAmbassador in reply toMiloCollie

They are a bit like that!

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