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OK. I admit that none of us like being on Prednisolone. But I have just discovered a unique advantage.

My parents tried to mould me into a well behaved and agreeable girl, I must avoid upsetting anyone and must always be accommodating. (I didn't always come up to their expectations) Nonetheless, some habits remained ingrained even at the age of 75. But along came Prenisolone. Gone was the smiling Stepford wife, enter the smiling unbridled independent bargain hunter.

For someone who couldn't bear to take a faulty object back to the shop or return a bad cup of coffee back to the counter, you should see me now!

My optician offered a discount, I went back later and negotiated a bigger discount at 30%.

We needed a new mattress and on asking, were offered a 20% discount. Returning after a few days I asked for a further discount. This time £130 was taken off the price of a £400 mattress.

Things didn't stop there, my local handyman offered a 15% discount on a kitchen repair. And so it went on: I queried my BUPA health care membership and was given 3 months membership for free!

Yes, I see myself rather like Wonder Woman - except I would look silly in the knickers. Pred Woman has arrived!

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SheffieldJane profile image
SheffieldJane

I think I’ve noticed something similar. You are putting yours to better use though.

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43tripandskip in reply toSheffieldJane

I still get snappy, so I make my "business deals" short and to the point. It's when my voice gets raised that I know I'm in trouble!!

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PMRproAmbassador

I'd say Result - except it is multiple results!!

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43tripandskip in reply toPMRpro

Yes, weird isn't it? Maybe I will start to dream of future winning lottery numbers. Wouldn't that be good!

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borednow in reply to43tripandskip

If you do I would very much like to be your best friend ......

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43tripandskip in reply toborednow

No problem. I'll be in touch with you if I win - that's a promise!!!

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Grants148

So true l am far less tolerant since being on pred,have not managed it to my advantage yet though,just seem to upset people instead ,still they deserved it !!

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Daisychain12 in reply toGrants148

You are far too gorgeous to ever upset anyone. I will never hear a single syllable against you. You are THE BEST. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

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43tripandskip in reply toGrants148

Yes, I agree. I can sometimes hear my voice getting raised. Weird isn't it!

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Longtimer

Well done, my Pre d mantra when buying anything is.... "Is that the best you can do?" ......it must have saved us pounds now being so blunt!😊

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Constance13 in reply toLongtimer

I can’t do it! Don’t have the guts.😂 Sad!

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Longtimer in reply toConstance13

Practise saying it humbly,...... they love people like you.....I do it every year with BT....amazea me what the deal ends up, and they are still making a profit......

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43tripandskip in reply toConstance13

Maybe the pred fairy will manifest itself in other ways. Really nice ways I hope!

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43tripandskip in reply toLongtimer

I've got to admit, I am amazed at my own brazeness.

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Longtimer in reply to43tripandskip

We should open a brazen huzzie club!😉

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43tripandskip in reply toLongtimer

Wouldn't we get on each other's nerves though?

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Longtimer in reply to43tripandskip

You mean trying to outdo each other with the best bargains!!😉

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43tripandskip in reply toLongtimer

Ha. Ha. I hadn't thought of that!

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GOOD_GRIEF

My Dear One says I was always a fairly intense woman, but me on steroids is a real trip!

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PMRproAmbassador in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

Actually, I found PMR did it without pred...

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Bronni in reply toPMRpro

Me too. Something about a systemic illness, that just makes you say “eff it!”

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43tripandskip in reply toBronni

Yes. I think you've nailed it. This is what it is in essence.

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Daisychain12 in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

I think you are amazing. You call out BS and are never fake. I think you are wonderful xxxx

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GOOD_GRIEF in reply toDaisychain12

You are very kind to say that.

Thank you.

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43tripandskip in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

I've got to say that I have to try to keep my intensity under control!

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GOOD_GRIEF in reply to43tripandskip

Don't hide your light under a bushel...just try to keep the laser force down to a minimum.

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43tripandskip in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

Your reply made me chuckle!

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Yellowbluebell in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

My OH has said similar things about me except he wasnt as polite as yours. He obviously has a death wish!!

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43tripandskip in reply toYellowbluebell

Wait until you win the lottery! Me thinks he will be very compliant!

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Pipalina

I am much amused by your "Brazen Hussy" antics - long may they continue! x

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43tripandskip in reply toPipalina

I've got to admit, they amuse me. I can't believe that I can be so upfront without offending!

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Louisepenygraig

I wish it had that effect on me! I can relate to the being brought up to doing as I was told and to be agreeable, smiling all the time. I takes years to get over doesn't it!

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Daisychain12 in reply toLouisepenygraig

Oh darling you are a gentle girl and much loved and valued for that xxxx

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GOOD_GRIEF in reply toLouisepenygraig

My Mom said you can catch more flies with honey...but who wants to catch flies?

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Bronni in reply toGOOD_GRIEF

😂

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43tripandskip in reply toLouisepenygraig

Yes, it certainly does. Being nice all the time is not only impossible but creates terrible conflict. I used to have a friend who couldn't say no. Live was extremely complicated for her!

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Dontwannabesick

Wear the knickers gal, you've earned the right. If anyone criticises you'll sort 'em out!

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43tripandskip in reply toDontwannabesick

I really laughed at your reply. The imagery is amazing!

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fmkkm

Brazen hussy turned into a peace loving recluse here!

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Daisychain12 in reply tofmkkm

That’s good too sweetheart xxxx

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43tripandskip in reply tofmkkm

I suppose it affects us all in different ways. But I've got to admit that there is still a lot of recluse in me still! Thanks for replying.

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Daisychain12

You are fabulous. I love this. BRAVO. Keep it up and enjoy your life darling!!!! Xxx

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43tripandskip in reply toDaisychain12

Thanks Daisychain, who would think that Prednisolone had so many advantages!

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Hollyseden

Wonder woman. More like wonderful woman 😄 brilliant stuff

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43tripandskip

Thanks, it has certainly made a difference to my self esteem!

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patriciawhite

Oh my goodness yes I can identify with the training .It never leaves you no matter how old you are .

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43tripandskip in reply topatriciawhite

I think that after and during the war. parents had enough to think about without worrying about long term effects of being compliant. But my mum hopped indoors fast enough when a stucker fighter plane aimed straight for her as she stood in the garden saying to the babe in her arms, "Look at the pretty plane." Yes, they had other ways of handling life's difficulties.

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Jazzkady

Well done you! Love your rebellious name! That’s really saying a lot! X

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43tripandskip in reply toJazzkady

I'm not really a rebel. I'm under the influence of prednisolone. At least that's what I will tell the judge when my case comes to court!

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Hellyowl

I think it great that Pred empowers, for me I have been more relaxed, (might just be aging) I am aware that there is a risk of depression with Pred, but I have to say it made me feel more sunny. I can't imagine how I would manage the down sides if I didn't feel that way.

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43tripandskip in reply toHellyowl

Yes, I've been blessed with not having depressive symptoms with pred. But I think my need to bargain comes from totally not being worried about anything. I just seem to go ahead and do it. It also explains many of the silly purchases I've made over the last couple of years!

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PMRCanada

Love your post and new-found ability to ask for what you want. Feels good, doesn’t it. Glad you can find the “up side” to taking pred (besides the obvious benefit of pain relief).

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43tripandskip in reply toPMRCanada

Thanks for your support. Yes, it is good to find an upside!

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artfingers

I have found pred changes my level of patience with my students. I REALLY have to watch myself all the time, put on a smile and deal with misbehavior while trying not to let it get to me. I get upset more easily. As for bargaining? I am so glad you have that new found strength. It's fun to strike a good deal, so good for you! Let's find more upsides.

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43tripandskip in reply toartfingers

Yes, I think that communicating with people when you can hear your voice getting louder is really difficult: you just can't walk away from a class and wait for the calm to come back. You have my sympathy.

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