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The Lighter Side of PMR - Update From Benjamin Towers: A Tease Too Far..? :-) :-/

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Well, my trusty and thoughtful Partners in Pred - what can I say..?

First, my sincere apologies for winding you up ‘Good-n-Proper’, as they say in gangster movies. I thought you’d read between the lines (esp. the Romeo & Juliet bit) but, clearly, my tongue was too firmly lodged-in-cheek for even You Lot ;-). I confess to having previous form for this type of thing…

Ok, to put the record straight (and stem an outbreak of mass panic and grief across the entire PMRGCA HU community):

1.I’M OK (or as ok as one can be with PMR and a recent bout of Man Flu).

2. Reports of my demise are greatly exaggerated (sic. Mark Twain).

3. I take my role and responsibilities here as Funny Uncle, Mirth Spreader and Chuckle Shuffler VERY seriously (if that’s not a contradiction in terms?).

4.Even the dreaded DF won’t stop me from teasing You Lot relentlessly and mercilessly with regular posts here (you should know this by now - careful what you wish for…). :-D

5.That said, I do NOT intend to feed your dependency on having a giggle every day (as one of the more daft amongst you recently implored me to do). As with the Preds, some of you need to wean-off of an un-natural need to laugh hysterically all the time, slowly and gently. PMR is a serious business, after all. Won't some of you just GROW UP?!

6.IF I happen to take a (real) break, get run over by a bus, abducted by aliens or whatever (as a couple of You Lot very kindly enquired via concerned PMs this morning), I’ll let you know in advance: or from, er, ‘The Other Side’ via Doris, my retained clairvoyant (see my conversations with The Prof), if I can't.

7.IF Doris suffers a similar fate (as above), then we’re ALL in trouble.

:-(

8.The bit about owning 6 gold-plated Mercedes Limos was a slight an exaggeration. They belong to my neighbour (a local fish & chip shop owner and part-time Oil Sheikh). I just borrow one occasionally so that I can show off at the supermarket. ;-)

9.As was the bit about my ‘Gaff’ (home) being heavily guarded. Although after winding you up so naughtily, it'll probably need to be in future.. :-/

10.(I’ve forgotten what 10 was - must be the Preds..)

But seriously folks, (unusual for me, I know), I really was amazed and touched by your speedy and thoughtful expressions of kindness and concern. Although I take full responsibility for my (for once) rather reckless humour, I am now grovelling to you with Humility. It reminds me how closely many of you watch and listen out for others here - some of whom might just be struggling even more than usual - and err on the side of empathy rather than scepticism. That's what makes this community so special.. keep it up! :-)

Strangely enough, and as a couple of you have said: yes, it does take quite a bit of mental / creative energy to be ‘Funny’ (allegedly) at the best of times - let alone with PMR etc. And as many comedians / comedy wordsmiths will confirm, making people laugh ‘to order / on demand’ is actually quite a serious business (paradoxically!).

But I’m always up for that Challenge, and the wonderful, often equally cheeky ‘feedback’ from You Lot makes every ounce of that energy feel well-spent. In return, I am truly grateful to you all for often brightening my days too.

So, that’s it for now. I’ve hopefully redeemed myself with You Lot, got back on the right side of The Aunties (who shall be respected at all times), unblocked the PMRGCAuk Helplines that have been clogged by callers expressing their concern about my well-being, and un-blotted my copybook generally. Fingers crossed.. ;-/

Now, what other mischief can I get up to, today? Ah, yes, a military-style assault on the 17 local Charity shops with a fiendish grin and this week's pocket money (ten quid). I’m sure I spotted that famous, priceless, ‘lost’ Van Gogh original painting in one of them last week. Trouble is, I can’t remember which one I saw it in. Oh well, that’s the Brain Fog for you!

Keep smiling All, and thanks again. Back soon - and I'll leave it to you as to whether you interpret that either as a promise or a threat... ;-) :-D

'Uncle' MB :-)

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allykat profile image
allykat

Phew!

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markbenjamin57 in reply toallykat

Thanks allykat... ;-)

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Zofitmogelijk

O, Good to read you gave us fake news, hope the last message is trustworthy 🤙🤔🤗

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markbenjamin57 in reply toZofitmogelijk

Yep Zofittmogelijk, I'll still be here ;-)

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Pat9442

Good and proper, MB! No more adrenal guyz, no more Janet and John, no donkeys in the supermarket - never mind no silly gobbledegook courtesy of the Prof! How dull my world was set to become!

I should have known better. As Dorset Lady and I agreed Loki is a good alternative pen name

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markbenjamin57 in reply toPat9442

Wow Pat, I never realised that my posts had such a long shelf life!

To be fair to you all, it was a bit naughty of me to wind you all up like that (yesterday's Post). But I really thought none of you would take any of it seriously... I wrong I was!

Mmm.. better catch-up with DL's Viking post and what Loki means - I'll brace myself ;-) :-D

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer

As you didn't avail yourself of my "Vikings" post (obviously man flu intervened) suggest you look up Loki!

Thanks Pat9442 for reminding me

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markbenjamin57 in reply toDorsetLady

Ah, yes, DL. I did see it but got side tracked somewhere along the way. Better dip in and be ready for Loki.... will do this ev. :-)

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altywhite

Haha!! Well that's good to hear... :-) :-)

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jinasc

Once a week will do for the time being.......................but you under- estimated how much people care and love laughter. Not enough at present in, what should be a beautiful world - Gaia is hitting back and I, for one, cannot blame her.

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markbenjamin57 in reply tojinasc

Yes jinasc - me too. I felt quite quite humbled by the response - and a bit embarrassed for tugging on people's heart strings in jest. I normally try to make my wind-ups obvious, but for once I mis-judged it. Actually, an interesting lesson for me in writing the 'humorous' stuff.... ;-)

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Rowboat

Hi I am Rowboat newly diagnosed TA.

Loved your post will be looking for more of them.

I a still on 60mg of pred and it has me feeling really good mentally :). I only see my 1 and 3 year old grandchildren a few times a year and now is one of those times. I am finding at times the pred seems to put me at the same mental level of the 3 year old. We were in the car today and James ( 3 ) asked who some random lady was crossing at the lights we were stopped at. The next thng you know we have named her Miriam. Then james started with the questions, where is she going, why etc. My husband, daughter and I fed his fantasy. Then here is 55 year old Gran in absolute hysterical laughter, tears running down my face and all, I just could not stop. The 1 year old started screaming, i guess I scared her. James took it all in his stride. All day after that all I had to do was think of 'Miriam' and I would start laughing. That has o be a huge upside of pred!

Have a good day :)

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markbenjamin57 in reply toRowboat

Greetings, Rowboat :-)

Thanks for your reply. What a lovely story, I can sort-of picture it! Sounds typical of what the Pred can do to the Mind - for better or worse?

Nice to see another new-ish member of You Lot / Us Lot here. If you dare, have a peek at my other posts for more 'Funnies' (allegedly..). Just look for 'MarkBenjamin57 / Posts', but please understand that I take absolutely NO responsibility for any consequences to you (or anyone else) in reading them ;-) :-D

Thanks again, have a happy weekend

MB :-)

p.s. please send my Best to 'Miriam' when she crosses your path next :-D

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shella

Phew - exactly -

Enough with the grovelling .... as you were!

Your next book Laugh your way though PMR could be a best seller?!!

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markbenjamin57 in reply toshella

Wow - thanks, what a great idea shella!

Ok, I'm on the case. But I'd better deliver the goods on the first one, first?! :-D

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Polylinc

💤💤💤😴...

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Marlenec

Hi MB

Don't bother looking for the painting - I snapped it up on Tuesday, then, couldn't believe my luck found 4 more exactly the same in the pound shop - so I'll email one on!

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markbenjamin57 in reply toMarlenec

Ha, Marlenec

So, it was YOU then! I thought I saw someone scurrying away with a big old picture under their arm. Hummmppphh :-(

Ok, thanks. I'll cut you a deal: e.mail one to me, and after I've glued it on to 'proper' canvas I'll auction it on ebay with a reserve of, say £4m? (go 50/50 with you on the proceeds?).

Did the same with a very convincing counterfeit of Leonardo Da Vinci's Mona Lisa recently. Once I'd obliterated her moustache, Ray-Ban sunglasses and tattoos (previously applied courtesy of an obviously, artistically gifted schoolboy) with post-it notes and flip chart marker pens, 'she' fetched six quid!

Happy Days... ;-)

MB :-)

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Marlenec in reply tomarkbenjamin57

Ha yourself MB

That extreeeeemly artistically gifted school-PERSON was me - YES I AM SPARTACUS! and what's this about flip chart markers indeed - I'll have you know it's Pentel or nothing with me!

Best wishes.

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