I really, really need help from the wise folks here. My 6 year old son has been suffering from a b12 deficiency, I believe, for the last few years. He was a vegetarian since birth and I was a vegetarian for 20 years before that, and my guess is that he didn't get enough b12 from me originally. At age 2.5, he started mentioning being "sad" out of the blue once every few months, and it became more common over the years (and he's not at all depressive by nature). At the same time, he became paler, more tired, lost his appetite, developed coordination problems, and his hands were always cold. At age 4.5 his b12 was tested and it was 1100, very high for a boy who ate an almost vegan diet. I still don't understand why the level was high.
We started giving him fish when he was 5 and he got worse for a week, and then got much better. After that I started giving him supplements, beginning at 30 mcg, and I always noticed an improvement in his symptoms w/in 24 hours. But the problem was that after 1-2 weeks, that amount wouldn't be enough and I had to increase it. So from 30 to 60 to 125 to 250...now he's taking 3000 mcg b12! That seems like way too much for a little boy. And yet if I decrease the amount, he instantly gets sad, his skin gets greyish, he loses appetite, etc.
He's never had shots; we've seen several doctors here in the US, but they've never been helpful.
A month ago, things suddenly shifted. My son's face finally got its color back, and he no longer could tolerate folic acid (it began to make him crazy), and he needed much more potassium. So I thought he was finally healing and close to being done. But that's not the case. He's doing ok right now, but not amazing; his color isn't as good as it was last month, and he has frequent bellyaches, possibly from constipation.
I'm still convinced that b12 is the issue; he's otherwise super healthy, doesn't get sick easily, and is naturally a cheery, confident fellow.
Sorry this is so long, but can someone help me? Either with a suggestion of a doctor or expert here in the US whom I can talk to (even just by email), or just the wisdom of whose who've been through this. Why does my son continually need more b12? That's my big question. And when will he finally be healed?
Thank you!!