Worried daughter

[De50-51]

Hi all my name is Denise, my family were all told on Monday that my mum who is 84 has got pancreatic cancer and that it has spread to where we won't know till Friday when she meets with the consultant. That's all I can say at the moment other than me my sister and both families are on in shock and trying to stay calm for mum xxxx

[sarahmags]

Sorry to hear your news.My partner had pancreatic cancer and we found out that it spread to his lungs and liver in a short period of time it was very sad and I lost him in March after he got an infection from the treatment he was having.Hope your mum receives better news.

[De50-51 in reply to sarahmags]

My mum won't receive better news they ate not treating her cos she doesn't want treatment cos it's to late all she wants is to be kept pain free and comfortable which at the moment is working and to spend as much time with me and my sister and all her 5 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter

[Flossie1920]

So sorry you're mum is so ill.....keep it together during these hard times and focus on the time left and good times past.

My thoughts are with you all

Flossie20

[De50-51 in reply to Flossie1920]

Thank you so much for your kind words that's what we are doing at the moment. She has made a short bucket list and number 1 on the list is to have a big family day out playing rounders etc so that's all happening next weekend weather permitting lol xx

[Flossie1920]

Aww it's very kind of you to take the trouble to reply when you all have so much on your mind. I lost my beautiful cousin who was more like a daughter since I fostered her to that terrible disease.....she was only 56 and I talk to her every day so I know what you're all going through. Like your mum she was extremely brave so good luck for the family day out and my fingers will be firmly crossed for good weather...

Very best wishes

Flossie20 xx

[hnxnh]

My mum's spread to her liver within a short space of time.. And that is usually the case due to it being next door to the pancreas 💜

[De50-51 in reply to hnxnh]

Thank you for all your kind words but unfortunately my mum passed away on 13th November and on top of that a week after my husband had 2 strokes me and my family are still struggling with our loss but are trying to hold it together for my husband xxx

[Dragongranny64]

Deepest sympathies De50-51 please may she have been in no pain and had the family picnic that was on her bucket list. Wishing your husband a quick and total recovery. Please allow yourself time to grieve bottling it up only cause problems further down the track. Hugs xxoo Anne