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Annoyed with a post here today

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seriously considering whether I will return. I come here for support not to see that kind of thing

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Hope264

Hi is it something you can report? Has it been removed? Forums are hit and miss sometimes and there is a fine line for people between venting in a 'safe' environment and being beligerant. I hope you are feeling ok whatever has upset you & what your condition is that you are living with and getting some support in whatever forms. Take care

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jfk71

Hi I also at times find some of the posts on here downright rude and offensive especially given it is supposed to a forum that supports people with varying illnesses and difficulties. As have however learned to read this posts with the same belligerence they have been posted. Sad that the few can sometimes sour what is for the most part, avert supportive community where lots of people have built up some very strong friendships. Try to rise above it and continue to come here to derive the positive stuff you get from posting and sharing friendships,or ones you may be building and not let the negative people and posts stop you from enjoying the benefits you might otherwise get from being here...hugs and hope you are feeling much better x

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Leonwp

Hi there, i must have missed something, what has offended you? I can only guess it has been deleted.

Blessings

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deejames

No idea to which post you are referring but the best thing is just to ignore ones that offend you. Sadly life is full of things which cause offence to some. I am offended by a lot of the stuff in the newspapers but I try to read with detachment or skip it altogether.

Don't leave the forum as you will miss out on the supportive posts if you do.

Best of luck

Dee

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Cat33

You do get morons on forums who post daft stuff please try and ignore them if the site usually helps you

All the best

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Valelady

Don't know what you read but what ever is was ,the person who upset you is nothing more than a morone, lease stay we do this for each other .good luck

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Hermes123

Hermes123. No Idea what your post was all about, but this is not a help line service, it is to vast and complex for that, it is where like minded people share view and opinions! We are not medical experts but hope by sharing our views with other like minded people, we might pick up useful advice we had not thought about, so we could approach our medical teams and ask whether this might be a course of action suitable for one self. I like to think of this blog as a support network of like minded people how can lend a shoulder to cry upon in this vast array of suffering? a release valve where you can exchange views with like minded people.

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makemepainfree

Don't leave you might get a good post out of a bad egg who ever they are ???

Hi abra cad abra dont know what post has upset you - but don't leave this forum as I can only say that 99% of peeps on here will only do more good than harm - we are all in the same boat although some peeps are more susceptible to really bad pain and other problems but since I've been on here from last June I can honestly say I've never ever been in a position to say I've been upset by anyone on here. If you do decide to stay look at the arrow below posts and if you feel the post is out of line just click on that to report the post who knows you may stop another person being as upset as you clearly are. Take care sending you hugsnkisses. 😘😘😘🤗🤗🤗

thanks everyone now I've calmed down, I can happily report I will be staying

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jaybrody

Before I found this forum I felt alone, isolated and very depressed even though my family and friends are extremely supportive they are things they don't simply understand only chronic sufferers do.Being part of this community has made a little bearable , sort of my refugee to speak.Pain is isolating in itself, so I am thrilled you are having a change of heart not to leave on account of someone. Remember also pain tend to make angry and aggressive so ignore those irritating threads and enjoy the benefit of this community

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