Can I ask why messages keep getting deleted off the site ?
Many people said nice thinks about a previous member of the site. It is clear he was well liked by most. I believe from one members post he got into arguments. I think pain wears us down. One of the questions I filled in asked about irritability with pain. I know I certainly jump down my other halfs throat.
Just because the thread didn't go the way admins expected it too - doesn't mean it should be deleted.
Should we all not be allowed our own say and opinions ?