I feel that what ever i do, my husband who has been diagnosed with stomach cancer stage 4 is never happy, he seems to have just given up. this is difficult for me as I am a nurse, i do everything possible for him. Now he will not eat, even though the doctor was very strict with him last visit.We hope the operation will be soon, just had 5 months of chemotherapy. I know how difficult this is for him and every day I try so hard, always being calm and kind and always being there for him. He now has trapped wind and I have found very good advise from others. However, he wont try anything. Sometimes I feel lonely. He is so very loved and we a great family and are going to be grandparents again any day now and again in May, that makes five grandchildren. How do other loved ones cope with there partners.?