We often miss important clues and factors in our rush to respond and give support to people and just had a good example of this. We post often when upset and miss mentioning some important things. Profiles often do little to help. I urge everyone to revisit your profile, as we can all help ourselves more. Tell your story completely as YOU wish but also - perhaps as bulllet points - why not highlight a few really key things to help everyone else help you. Some of these may be relevant.
> Could be that you had this before - a new kind of TLC is needed.
> Not having family - or having lost them and feeling alone. Or, being over supported and suffocated.
> Top worries - eg about reaction from, or impact on, children, partner, friends
> Feeling particularly young for this. Or old, even.
> Top things that keep you awake at night.
> Fears, eg of drug reactions or side effects; loss of independence or intimacy... long possible list
> If desirous of meeting nearby ladies for coffee (you would need to add location in that case).
> Also - key capabilities that could help others, if appropriate and if feeling so inclined.
You get the idea. No rules, but some helpful thoughts, I hope
Off to revisit mine now..