Hello i was just wondering if any of you gorgeous women out there could help me. im only 38 and as most of you know i had my debulking last august. Im having a lot of trouble with the menopause side of things. Im not taking any HRT for the obvious reasons but also because the ones i have tried made me feel really poorly. I have kind of got the flushes under control although i do still get them and the night sweats are fairly infrequent. But the emotional side of things are another matter, I used to be quite tough and if people upset me i could just brush it off but these days things really get to me and really upset me. I have people walking all over me at work because im not sticking up for myself like i used to.. I was just wondering if any one else having had the menopause early have any similar problems and how do you cope with it.. I would appriciate ANY advice, or even just a kind word.
feeling very very low
love suzanne. xxxx