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Going out of my mind with worry

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I suffer with health anxiety and ovarian cancer is my worst nightmare, I can't stop worrying about the what ifs, My mind is taking over, I'm not eating I just feel so stressed. My ultrasound is later today and I am so worried about what their going to say. I just want all this pain and stress to go away, but I think this is it..... I'm trying to distract myself, but just not happening, I am so down and depressed. Haven't even been seen yet, but my heads running away thinking the worst.

Please help me, I think I need a hug x

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Lindaura

You just need to take a deep breath, have a cup of tea and wait for your appointment.

Who will accompany you?

Perhaps they should come over earlier and you can chat about your options?

Sending a virtual hug,

Laura

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Dog_1976 in reply to Lindaura

My husband is coming with me, I just really don't need this added stress as my brother in law died suddenly a couple of weeks ago and his funeral is next week....it's just all too much. I'm really not coping!

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Sending hugs and positive wishes your way. Wishing you the most positive of results. X

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Katmal-UK

Awww, of course you need a hug and a BIG HUG. Don't think there is a soul in this forum who doesn't understand what you are going through. What time is your ultrasound - we can all send you positive vibes. Just think when you are lying there we are all in the room with you holding your hand. xxx Kathy

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Dog_1976 in reply to Katmal-UK

Half past 4

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Katmal-UK in reply to Dog_1976

Be thinking of you xx

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Small_bump

Hi, I am going through very similar emotions and I'm guessing everyone on this forum has also felt exactly the same. You definitely need a big hug so I'm sending you a virtual one! And huge good luck vibes for this afternoon,

Emma xx

🙋‍♀️Good Luck with your tests. xx

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Dog_1976

Thank you all x

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Purple-iris

Big hug and positive vibes heading your way 💜

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Lyndy

Hope it went well at the ultrasound...? It’s ok to ask for extra help from your GP to deal with anxiety if you need it...I had counselling while I was going through diagnosis- it really helped x

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Dog_1976

Thanks everyone for your kind words and replies.... The lady who did the ultrasound said everything is normal and is ok....ovaries are normal etc. I am so tired after all the stress of it all x bless you all.

Thanks for being there for me x it means alot x

Love Jo

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Small_bump in reply to Dog_1976

That's fantastic news 🙂 I'm so happy everything was normal. Fingers crossed that is the end of the worry for you x

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claireRoberts76 in reply to Dog_1976

big hugs... im a huge worrier too!! hope you are ok xxxxxx

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ZenaJ in reply to Dog_1976

Sorry I should have read the messages before I wrote my views. I'm so glad everything is okay. xx

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Over the moon that everything is normal! Fantastic news Jo. So pleased you aren’t part of this awful club. xoxo

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Cropcrop

We all know how you feel, we’ve all been there and had these anxieties. Big hugs coming from a very sunny Lancashire 🤗🤗❤️Xx Jane

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Neona

Well done for getting through- glad the results were ok.

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TudorPurr68

Loving hug from me. There is a lot of love in this forum. Take a portion for yourself x

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tara108

Thinking of you and sending Big Hugs from Australia.

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Wanthealth

Big HUGS. 🙏🏻

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ZenaJ

It's a very normal reaction to be stressed and worried when hearing this sort of news. But, what if everything is okay. That would be wonderful. Even if the news isn't as good as you're hoping there is still much hope. There are ladies on here that have survived for years, even at stage 4.

Hopefully, you've had some good new after your scan this afternoon but even if not quite so good there is a lot of treatment out there that is successful in giving you a great life. We are all here to support you as well as your health professionals.

Best wishes for good news. Zena xx

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