Half of the mad family.

[Kryssy]

Hello all you lovlies. I hope that you are all feeling well and happy.

I have taken loads of photos whilst being in merry England but I think that this one sums up our family. I took the same one 2 years ago when little Max was born. We do daft things like that. Max is now 1yr 9mths and a right little sausage, just like his daddy was. It's sad that we don't see him often but as he gets older he'll be able to remember us more. Also met our new great-great nephew whilst here. The family tree continues to grow steadily. Should have flown home today but France is on strike - again - so stuck until Sunday. More time with the family though so nothing lost. Have put on shed loads of weight. Everything is tight. Children think it's good but I've got used to being back to my teenage weight and chucked all my fat clothes out a while back.

Put the wheels in motion for my burial plot, just up the road from our number 2 son. Changed my mind on location and am happy with my choice now. Pretty little church with well tended graveyard. Sort of gave me some peace inside. I'll fight tooth and nail to fend off the inevitable so it's not giving up. The vicar said that I am brave. Not at all. Just realistic and although I'm not religious or have a faith I can't be buried in the back garden so will respect the church. It's the after party that will reflect how I lived my life and I hope everyone will celebrate and not feel too sad. I've told the vicar this and maybe because it's a woman she understood and didn't get offended. After all, none of us know what's on the other side. If I get the chance then I'll let you know.

Take care folks. Love Kryssy xxxxx

[Janet235]

Nothing quite like a mad family.... fun and laughter.

Can't bring myself to sort my 'end' out yet, though I do want to be cremated, have a humanist service and scattered or 'urned' in a wood locally. Plus a tree planted in my name. Need to get on the case.... hubby bought me a subscription to the Woodland Trust' for my birthday, so maybe I will get a clue when the packet of stuff arrives.

Meanwhile off for my posh afternoon tea soon, got to get all the bucket list experiences ticked off

X

[BeeWild]

Absolutely love the crazy faces!! Glad you’ve had a good catch up Kryssy and got your spot sorted!

You’ve gotta love the French and their strikes lol!

I can empathise with the weight thing, I’ve never been this porky in my life I blame the chemo but in reality it’s just being unable to resist any and all food!! I now have bulging wardrobes as I’ve had to give in and buy myself a set of fatter clothes one for winter and now summer eeek!

Hope you enjoy the rest of your dmstay in this lovely sunshine and safe trip back xx

Bev

[January-2016-UK]

Only you could post the same pic four times! I looked at the others as I thought they might be the other half of the family.

And no-one has taught the dog to make silly faces in front of the camera...You need to work on that for next time.

All the best. At least you get another few days with the family. And you can relax now you’ve chosen your plot. It sounds idyllic, a pretty little church.

[Kryssy in reply to January-2016-UK]

Really don't know what happened there Helen. Guess I got click happy or something. Can't delete them if there are replies though. Oh well, my usual nutty scatterbrain self at work. xx

[Cropcrop]

Love it, just love it, It’s reassuring to know we’re not the only crazy gang around, seems the dog is the only sensible one among you 😂🐶. I’m pleased you’ve enjoyed your visit back to Blighty and a few more days here can only be a good thing.

I understand you needing to get arrangements in place, my diagnosis pushed us to make our wills out, (it was a good time to do it too as the solicitors were waiving their fees in return for a comparable donation to Christie’s so it seemed apt) and funeral plans were taken out so it’s all sorted, I want a wicker casket, I felt it gave me some peace of mind and a little bit of control back.

Enjoy your stay extension, I hope the French get their collective fingers out and that you have a safe journey home.

Love and hugs ❤️Xx Jane