Staying positive can be tough: Well I'm still... - My Ovacome

My Ovacome

18,249 members20,377 posts

Staying positive can be tough

RockChick54 profile image
8 Replies

Well I'm still here. diagnosed Feb 2014 stage 3c both ovaries. bit of a shock coz hadn't had a day off sick in 10 years! Debulk surgery April 2014 followed by full course chemo (18 weeks became 22 due to platelet issues). Had to give up work instantly on diagnosis as job involved lifting & company insurance wouldn't allow me to continue. Have been supported by so many friends and neighbours who I can never thank enough. I lost my hair & eyelashes which was so depressing. Hair is beginning to grow back but is horrible, thin & wiry and eyelashes keep falling out. Still wearing the wig! Have had to make nuisance of my self at hospital as not one of my appointments has come through on time> still waiting for my 12 month review date which should have been in October. I have insisted on being positive. I will not give in to this. Last week I went back to work. Everything has changed, so much new technology but I will master it. Yes it is physically very hard & I am exhausted but I am back! When you get that first diagnosis it seems like the end of the world. It is a new chapter but the best medicine I have found is defiance. Live to the max & don't waste time worrying why you or wishing it wasn't you. I will not focus on what I can't do but revel in what I can still achieve.

Written by
RockChick54 profile image
RockChick54
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
8 Replies
maz54 profile image
maz54

Absolutely! That's the maxim I live by! Embrace each day! The bugger hasn't got us yet! ! Xx

Katmal-UK profile image
Katmal-UK

Hi. Love your name and attitude! I'm believe I have the same attitude. I always bring to mind something my late boss used to say 'Don't let the b*****d grind you down Kathy' . You go girl! Your spirited post made me smile. Best wishes xx

julesc444 profile image
julesc444

Thanks for sharing your story, this is so positive and inspiring. I hope you get your appointment through soon, let us know how it goes xxx

Hitchmo profile image
Hitchmo

You're amazing. What an inspiring post - thank you. I hope you get that 12-month review very soon and it's good news. Keep kicking, RockChick!

Kerry x

angeladale profile image
angeladale

" Defiance is the best medicine " ....That , I love !

Go girl ! Go !

Bobbysgirl5 profile image
Bobbysgirl5

I have always tried to be positive as regards my health, being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 20 years ago. The possible diagnosis of oc seems to be a further kick in the teeth! However, I will do what I have become used to doing FIGHT! I hope you're continuing to be as well as possible love n hugs Carol x

Caroles1 profile image
Caroles1

Rockchick54

You are inspirational and have my feeling to a T! Who needs hair and eyelashes ? A funky wig,fake tan and smudgy eyeliner does the power of good.

Keep fighting xxx

Aromology profile image
Aromology

You have a fantastic attitude. Thanks so much for sharing it.

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Hair is back, but too much!

My hair is slowly starting to come back to life after finishing chemo - eyelashes and eyebrows all...
FlowerRose profile image

Hair Growth

HI all was wondering what your experience has been on how quickly hair grows back and for all you...
iamstillme profile image

How long for hair (lashes/brows) to grow after nab Paclitaxel (Abraxane)?

Hi all, apologies if this question has been asked in the past. It's now 4 weeks from my 6th...
IsaStarr profile image

A positive can always come out of a negative

I was on my last legs in August 2014, I had a bloated stomach, couldn't eat, had lost 3 stone in as...
Caroles1 profile image

Still feeling sick 😖

Hi everyone I am a month out of last chemo and I had to rush to loo last night being sick again......
Microbabe profile image

Moderation team

See all

Top community tags

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.