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had to get daughter taken into care not nice but had to be done nor sure of full assesment yet but if they dont keep her in it will the same next week she is a lost soul at the moment fire alarms going off food all over plates broken things going missing etcetc what the answer is god knows and he aint telling me SO I MUST THANK ALL WHO GaVE A THOUGHT not giveing up yet

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Neonkittie17 profile image
Neonkittie17

You are her Dad and want her to be safe and well. You did the right thing in case she has an accident. 💗

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pauluk60 in reply to Neonkittie17

thanks means a lot at moment

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Neonkittie17 in reply to pauluk60

💗 Look after yourself too, Paul.

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Pippy25

Thinking of you.

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Madmusiclover

difficult decision. Well done Paul.

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sunnyweek

Difficult time for you all, thinking of you.

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Deeb1764

it needed to happen try to sort some quality time for you too

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Annpisan

Never feel guilty for loving your children enough to make a difficult decision. Thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself.

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Suzy-P

What a hard thing to have to do - but you did the right thing for all concerned. Take care

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sylvi

Sorry your going through this Paul sending hugs. xxx

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Gladders

Thinking of you take some time to come to terms with it, a friend of mine had to do the same she was full of guilt but things have improved so she now has quality time with her daughter but its taken time.

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Plumcrumble

You've done the right thing for your daughter so she can get better, sending best wishes to you both 👍

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Haz58

sending hugs Paul. You have done what is best for her which is what great parents do. Take time for yourself and look after yourself. Xx

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greynot

So sorry it has got so bad Paul. You have done what had to be done. I hope she has to stay in care for long enough to have a full recovery.

Take time to look after yourself and recover from the aftershocks. Thinking of you x

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madme1

Neonkittie is right Paul, you made an extremely difficult decision, but the right one for you both under the circumstances. I hope both you and your daughter get all the help and support you both need, take care.

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Vixen2

Hi pauluk. I remember ‘speaking’ to you a few yrs ago. I lost my lovely mother & you were very sweet. I live with a hamster called Eric! I never had kids. I’m (51). Very glad i didn’t. The stress must be awful. Hearing you’ve had to put your daughter into care? What a hard decision that must have been for you. But it sounds like you needed time apart. Just to get your head straight. Good luck with everything & as others have said. You have to think of your health too. X

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pauluk60 in reply to Vixen2

they took her in but released her now drunk gone to finish bottle looks like a good day for it

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Stats12

sending hugs Paul xx

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Fruitandnutcase

Oh gosh Paul, I don’t know what to say apart from sending you my very best wishes, you did the right thing having her taken into care, such a pity they have released her so soon. Look after yourself it must feel like you’re living through a nightmare right now.

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