I work 4 days a week. From September last year I had started to return 3 days a week to the office as per the new co. policy.
Work was stressful in December & I had some family stress at Christmas. I’m sure this all contributed to the worst flare up I’ve had in a long time which I’m hoping is starting to subside now. This week I couldn’t drive due to the pain & the mornings are awful. If I hadn’t been able to work from home I’d have had to call in sick. I had video calls with my manager where I got very upset as the pain was getting me down. We are very busy at work so I was happy to carry on but it was good being at home so I could have my hot water bottle and take breaks when I wanted.
My manager said to me that soon they will be expecting everyone back again 3 days a week & that I should perhaps consider making a flexible working request to just do 2 days in the office not 3. She said they would consider any flex working proposal I put forward as they want to help & know it’s not easy for me. She said I would need to do this really otherwise would be expected to follow the policy of in 3 days as otherwise it wouldn’t look fair to others.
Having done some reading I can see that there are flexible working requests & also reasonable adjustments for people with a disability. I’m now wondering if I should be requesting wfh 2 days out of 4 as a reasonable adjustment rather than a flex working request? Is it more likely that they would have to agree to a reasonable adjustment request than a flex working request? I’ve never had any real issues before with my RA at work however last year I had the best year ever in 14 years of having it & even managed to stop my meds for months. All of this was while working from home & it makes me wonder if this helped my RA as no rushing in the mornings, no commute, no sat in one spot for hours in office etc and just generally less stressful. Therefore I would love to make wfh a more permanent thing but I also need some interaction for my mental health and to engage with my colleagues about work. Management are very keen on face to face interaction and my boss in particular I think gets frustrated with doing everything by zoom! Some people are reluctant to return and I know this hasn’t gone down well.
What I’m trying to say is would I have more chance of them agreeing to my permanent request to do 2 days at home if I suggested it as a reasonable adjustment? Or should I do as my boss suggested & make a flex working request which the policy states they could refuse?
I’m just conscious that the timing of it looks as though I’m reluctant to go back 3 days and I’m worried people might think I’m using my condition as an excuse. The other thing is, as my husband pointed out is that even if only had to go in 2 days, with a flare up like this I wouldn’t even be able to manage that so how do I deal with that in my request?
Has anyone else requested more working from home & did you make a flex request or ask for it a as a reasonable adjustment?
Thanks for any help or suggestions with this.