Sorry to have to tell you.: I found my Mum on the floor... - NRAS

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Sorry to have to tell you.

I found my Mum on the floor in her bedroom this morning. She has passed away and just now it all seems so odd and unreal. It was only yesterday she was telling me off for late meals and for her tea being too hot. I feel so lost but at least I wasnt alone when I found her. Thankyou all for caring and suggesting help with caring for Mum. As you can imagine I have a lot to sort out now and my brain feels like cotton wool. Sharon

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im so sorry !was only just thinking of you.. think she was lucky to have you and you were with her always xx

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Sharon I'm sending you a message

Tricia

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I cant believe it. Im so sorry your message seems unreal- sending you lots of love . Cant imagine how you must be feeling xxxxxxx

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Oh Sharon, I am so sorry you must be devastated. Thinking of you, and don't forget you can come and "talk" on here any time. All the very best and i wish you a hug. Julie x

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Hello Sharon

I was so shocked to read your post having only read the earlier one this morning and was pondering on what sort of help might be available to you before replying.

I am so sorry to read of your Mum's sudden passing away. You have been so instrumental in caring for her and helping her to live a life with some quality. Whilst it is such a sad time for you and your daughters please try to take some consolation from the fact that her final days were spent with you in a caring and loving environment. You have done so much for your Mum and, although a little cross and bad tempered at times, possibly due to her feeling so unwell, I am sure she will have appreciated everything you have done for her. May she now rest in peace unburdened by the problems of recent times.

A lot for you to take in and consider Sharon but do take care of yourself at this very stressful time. We are all here for you and to offer the support you may need from time to time. Please feel free to message me if you wish.

Keep in touch Sharon,

Lyn x

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My goodness, such a shock to read your post. I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum. I can't imagine how you must be feeling and can only hope that you have lots of family around you to support you through this difficult time. Take care xx

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Hello Sharon,

So so sorry to hear of the shock you have had today. You will

be in a daze i'm sure. So much for you to take in and the shock

please look after yourself,

Rose

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Thankyou all so much for taking time to send me your kind thoughts. I am afraid I have had to have a drop of wine tonight.

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Hi Sharon, my thoughts are with you, such sad news I'm so sorry. Have a glass of wine like you said and take care.

mand xx

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Thank you Mand I did have a large glass of wine and also took a sleeping pill. So did get some sleep. Lots to do today.

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Hi Sharon,

so sad to hear of your dear mums passing, my thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time. Stay strong. You know where we are. x

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Thank you Gina I feel so lucky to have all you RA friends to talk to.

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Oh Sharon..... so sorry to hear about your mum's passing.

May she rest in peace and may you take comfort from knowing that your mum was loved and cared for by you.

Do take care

Sue xx

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Thank you Sue her suffering is over now she had had many years of acute pain with her OA and had been in and out of hospital such a lot since this heart trouble started. As she used to say "God is good".

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.. her pain has gone.. im not very religious.. but her suffering is over. she had a dutiful daughter.. it is now time for you and your daughters to support each other , feel free to message me at any time

Alison

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Hi Sharon, I only read your previous post earlier this morning but am so sorry to hear your mum has passed away.There will be a lot for you to do so make sure you take care of yourself.You are in my thoughts. Brenda.x

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Thankyou Brenda I have made a few more phone calls this morning and went out this afternoon with my eldest daughter and grandson.

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You are in my thoughts at this very sad time. Hope your pain with soon ease. xxx

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Thank you Juliep.

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So sorry to hear your sad news. x

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Thank you very much.

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Thinking of you at this sad time xxx

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Thank you so much.

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