Brian here, I have just read your blogs and being a man I can't imagine what it is like to have children but with RA has well my heart goes out to all woman everywhere. I have suffer for a number of years, at one time after my hips ops I managed to go the gym now I have trouble to go into the garden and most shopping days have to use a wheel chair. I don't know what I would do without my family and friends they are my unpaid carers and never complain. It's good to talk to others and have a laugh, if you can start the day with a smile the rest of the day goes much better, so chin up. I some times think is it all worth it but you only have to look at and see the sun shine and the birds sing and it all seems worth while. Pancake tomorrow, live a little, make a pile and curl up in front of the TV and a good soap. I'm looking to have a stair lift putting in has anyone got any tips for me to look out for.