Set up for Transplant Evaluations at various centers...

[FelineFandom146]

Hello everyone: I've been on this site for a few years now. I came on here today to ask about other's experience with their kidney transplant and any tips they may have for the evaluations. Any and all advice is appreciated, negative and positive. If you could give one one piece of advice to another person about transplants and the evaluations, what would it be? Why?

I know a transplant is not the cure all it could be. Two years ago, my eGFR declined to 20 and my Nephrologist is all happy that I was eligible for dialysis or transplant, but I wasn't interested in doing it while I was feeling fine. Why push fate and take a chance on something worse while my kidney is still working. Fast forward to now two years later. My eGFR is now 10.9 and stable for over a year. My Nephrologist is again pushing me to do dialysis and/or transplant. My one kidney is still working and I still fine. I am not rushing into dialysis, as he wants me to do, but I am set to get evaluated to get on various transplant waiting lists at different centers next month, just in case. I'd like to know how your kidney transplant surgeries went and how your evaluations went and if you have any tips, recommendations you may have for the evaluations. I am still doing everything I can to avoid dialysis/transplant. I exercise everyday. I meditate. I take my meds. I eat a Vegan Whole Foods Plant Based Diet supplemented with Ketologues. I eat lots of fruits and vegetables. I pray a great deal not just for me but for everyone. And yes, I'm still praying for a miracle.

I'm one of those persons that know that physicians are not Gods and that they don't know everything. And putting a patient on dialysis and/or transplant is when they make the big bucks not from office visits so they push us into it. I also know about the lifelong meds that a transplant patient has to take to keep the transplant safe and that there are lots of them and it isn't cheap and many make you feel worse than you were before the transplant. People don't want to hear negative experiences, especially our specialists who are trying to talk us into doing something we really don't want to do. But I do. I feel I'm as informed as I can be and still I wonder what else is there that I'm missing. Thanks in advance for sharing your experience. I wish everyone my sincere best wishes. Stay safe. Regards,

[Bassetmommer]

Get evaluated as many places as you can. If you can get there within a couple of hours, do it. You can be evaluated at as many places as you want. You can only LIST with one within the region. The process takes time, depending on where you go. Look up the statistics of how often they do transplant also. And lastly, fight...if you need to. I should say advocate. I was declined the first evaluation I did for "being overweight" until I got a letter stating that the BMI level was above where I had been for years. I made them back date my wait time and got back two years.

I did dialysis, sooner than I should. I was down to GFR of 7 but felt fine. No symptoms. I had a fistula done in at the end of June and was on in October. Too soon and had nothing but issues for 6 months with the fistula. So, get one now, in case. You do not want a chest catheter. Unless you are thinking PD.

BTW, I lasted 6 years with a GFR of 15 to11 doing what you are doing with diet. Keep it up and see how long you can go. Make sure you are helping the kidney with water intake. I won't mince words anymore, dialysis sucks. And transplant is not the end all of cures....because it is not a cure, it is a treatment. But the freedom from dialysis is worth it. No one deserves CKD, but at least we have a future to go to. Some illnesses don't.

[FelineFandom146 in reply to Bassetmommer]

Thank you for your comment, Bassetmommer and your tips. Much appreciated. My insurance fortunately has no limits as to where I can go so I'm going wherever I'm able to. What you mean I an list with one within the region. My Nephrologist didn't mention that neither have any of the Transplant centers I was referred to. I'm a strong advocate for myself and others. Frankly, I don't trust physicians. I know how they only know 1% of what is going on. I'm keeping to my diet to see how long I can go. I remember the story my Nephrologist tol dme last year when my eGFR dropped to 20, thanks to a bad cocktail of meds my GP put me on for a painful UTI, but that is another story. Anyway, one of his patients had a eGFR of 2 and wasn't ill or showing any clinical signs. She was doing great and could have been for awhile. Our docs don't know everything. Anyway, my doctor was scared for her and pushed her onto dialysis and now she is ill and so on. Trust your body, trust your gut. No one knows it better than you do. If you're not ready, you're not ready. Besides, as you and I concur, transplant is not the end of cures and it isn't a cure. It is a treatment. It is better than the alternatives. Thanks again. Stay safe.

[MSW1992]

Evaluations can be quite overwhelming, and it is important to allocate most of your day to the center for these appointments. You will receive an abundance of information during these sessions, so be sure to bring a means of taking notes. Being listed at multiple transplant centers can be beneficial, but it is important to consider your insurance coverage, as some plans only allow you to be listed at a single facility. Other insurance policies may require you to be listed in your home state before you can be considered at out-of-state facilities. Other insurances have no restrictions.

You can always choose to be listed and placed on hold, allowing you to accrue time on the transplant list, and when you're ready, the center can activate your status. It’s important to recognize that a kidney transplant is not the only option, and while it offers significant benefits, it also requires substantial effort. Dialysis, too, is a demanding process. Ultimately, the goal of a transplant is to help you return to a more normal lifestyle, but it’s not the right choice for everyone. It’s crucial to determine the path that works best for you.

Below are two websites where you can compare different kidney transplant centers. Both offer valuable information at no cost, and a paid plan is not necessary to access the resources:

• srtr.org/transplant-centers...

• transplantcoach.com/home

[FelineFandom146 in reply to MSW1992]

Thank you for your comment, MSW1992. Much appreciated. My insurance fortunately has no limits as to where I can go so I'm going wherever I'm able to. I didn't know about being listed and placed on hold, so thanks for that information. I'm a strong advocate for myself and others. I know a transplant isn't the cure all and I'm not into getting dialysis so I have to hope for a pre-emptive transplant if that is in God's plan. Thanks for the two sites you provided. I shall be delving into them right away. I'm quite sure the evaluation process is a big deal not to be taken lightly. I believe in the doing the best I can and leaving the rest in God's hands because in the end that is all I can really do anyway. Thanks again. Stay safe.

[FelineFandom146 in reply to MSW1992]

Hello again! Thanks for the websites. Question: Have you used Transplant Coach? Exactly what is it? What is your experience with it? I noticed they have pricing available....Thanks again for your comment.

[LisaSnow]

Since your post conveys a sense of preexisting distrust of healthcare professionals, I urge you to work cooperatively with the center that you will ultimately use for your ESRD management, no matter what treatment you end up choosing. Just like with any relationships, a successful outcome depends on effective bidirectional communication and mutual trust and respect. If you already have bias against people who will help you make the treatment decision, then it is going to be difficult for them provide you with the best care you deserve.

[FelineFandom146 in reply to LisaSnow]

Hello LisaSnow! Your comment is appreciated. As I said, I know the system well. Always start out nice, pliable and dumb, and then wrench it up when you have to fight. I always give a new physician a fair shake and go from there. How they treat me is how I treat them or I just move onward from there. As you said, a successful relationship depends on mutual communication, trust and respect, but it seems a great many physicians forget that, especially the more specialized they are. Such as exists with Lawyers. Because if I blindly go in thinking they know everything I'm in just as much danger as you said. Thank you. Stay safe.

[ShyeLoverDoctor]

”many make you feel worse than before the transplant”.

Yes. However, at a certain point, the alternative is dialysis, or death.

Find out what the wait time is at each center you are applying to.

The Mayo Clinic in Phoenix, AZ is world class and does the most transplants in the United States. I highly recommend them.