I am hoping someone can help me, or at least give me information. I am new to the forum. I had been doing PD for about 18 months. I decided that I wanted to change to home hemodialysis as I feel the PD was really affecting my quality of life (not to mention the time commitment). I have just begun in-center to build-up the fistula and once that is completed they will begin the training for my home therapy. (probably a month or two).
When I initially mentioned that I wanted to do the home hemo, but I wanted to do it alone without a caregiver (As I was told this is becoming more common). Fresenius nurses initially told me that I could do that and there would be no problem doing it. But after I had the fistula placed and was waiting for it to heal they said that I must have a care partner.
This is where my dilemma comes into play. I am a relatively young person (39) and I have no doubt that if I am properly trained I will have no problems. I do live with my 60-year-old mom and initially told them that she was going to be my care partner. However, upon reflection, this is not a very good option as she works full time, and more importantly I feel it isn't appropriate to have her have to do this for me. additionally, I feel like the nurses are deliberately misleading me about the need for a caregiver. As more than a few people at the dialysis center tell me there are others who self treat. I guess I am just looking for advice from others that may know something and could give me advice...
Any help would be appreciated...