Words that Hurt

[franklin1970]

When your all ready suffering and on your journey making best of everyday!! Then someone real close to you hurts your heart with their words you cry in silence and you put on your happy face and try to forget but your mind wanders back to the words said and you start to feel inadequate and worry for the future! You wonder is it my ailments?

Golden Rule!” Do unto others as they would do unto you”! Why does a person hurt you and your all ready feeling low and scared, as you question your own vanity and wonder why those words were said? I guess sometimes we’re vulnerable and being rejected and we could be having a great day and then POW! Those words hit you like a ton of bricks. Well if this happens we have to stay afloat and try to stay positive no matter what! I not feeling very beautiful these days and honestly been crying in silence since last night! I hope the rest of the day gets better! Just gonna make the most of it! I won’t lie! Feeling down today so got to turn my mindset to positive as stress or upset makes it worse! You all have a great day today and hugs and prayers for you amen!

[Gogogirl47]

I have had the same thing happen. I think people get tired of being around someone who feels sick and sometimes not able to do things they used to do, so they lash out in frustration. I had. Friend like that an she said she found it “wearing” being with me when l am in pain. People just don’t get it....not until they experience it themselves. I do sympathize. Most have no clue what misery being in constant pain is like.

[franklin1970 in reply to Gogogirl47]

Thanks Gogogirl47 ! Yes what you said I think you hit it on the nose! We all experience this at some point and just have to stay positive and we still have our bad days, but we just have to stay positive so now I try to hide the pain as much as I can, and I know my loved ones see it, but it breaks my heart as they’ve all said they feel so helpless and no one wants to see someone suffering! God bless you and your family and may he watch over and protect you amen.

[Boxer30]

I just read this post and you are a pillar of strength. I try to remember that sometimes people act out from their own fears and frustrations with what is happening to us (the one they love). Nobody likes to see a person they love in pain.

[franklin1970 in reply to Boxer30]

Thank you my friend and my husband said it breaks his heart as he feels so helpless and it hurts him and me. Your a pillar of strength we all are here. What we all deal with is how we choose to accept the hand we were dealt or we give up and we have to much to live for even though all of us are on difficult journeys and know we are all here for one another. God bless you all amen