ms Family, Sometimes people say things they regret later. Put it in writing and post it online and it is there for the rest of your life. If somebody is inclined they will find it. I have three double-sided folders full of my writing and even some people have written back to me. there is a record. Be aware of what YOU say and aware of how it may impact others. personally, I am not aware of everybody's personal mental condition, so I am inclined to cut them some slack. Be kind and as a suggestion do the same.
Royce
Your ms writer