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I am in two minds on this one, so "YOU have to bear with me.

These are my emotions and I am going to vent them as much or whenever I feel them.

These are my emotions and I will do my absolute best to hide them from anybody so that I do not inconvenience or upset them.

It is my place to be seen and not heard, never to complain and perish the thought to whine or feel sorry for myself. I will keep my pain to myself and nobody will ever know.

"YOU" all have read me for the last few months, I have a great many opinions based on 20+ years of experience and have absolutely no fear or embarrassment in stating my feelings loudly and often. My suggestion to "YOU" might be to "POLITELY but FIRMLY" state this. Accept that "YOU" are going to be wishy-washy and change your mind twenty times before breakfast. This is a condition of our illness, get used to it and let everybody know that "YOU" can not control it and that "IS" the way it is now. "YOU" hate and wish it was not so but there are no medicines to control it and neither can "YOU".

Relapsing-Remitting ms is "NEVER" an excuse to be rude or callous to others, but without a doubt, it does give "YOU" the reason to be politely demanding. One of my favourites is that I have a chronic illness, just like cancer. Unfortunately, I have to live with it for fifty years, I do not get let out early by dying like cancer people. I would suggest that you are more courteous than this. I get away with it because I am a 50 year old man and I am well practised in getting my way. Bit of honesty there:-)

Remember always that this your illness, nobody else. "YOU" are doing the best that "YOU" can, and sometimes we just do not make others or even our own expectations. This is life with an incurable chronic medical condition Now put on your protective underwear, straighten your shoulders and face this life, On your terms, just be polite.

Royce

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Good advice.

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Do my best, glad you liked it

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Lovingharmoney

I am so glad to see that I'm not the only one going through those emotons

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RoyceNewton in reply toLovingharmoney

believe me you are not the only one going through emotional issues

Very well said and I completely agree with you.

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Thank you

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pleasure is mine

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Juliew19673

Thanks Royce!

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pleasure is mine

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