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Today is my my mothers funeral and i am not there. I talked to my dad last night and he understands y i didnt go and said he loves me.

Now i really dont wanna get outta bed and the Hug is making it hard to breathe.

Happy Valentines day ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’”

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kdali profile image

Oh nos ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Jesmcd2 profile image

I wish I had the words to make things better for you Midgey_Midge06 ๐Ÿ’•

Know we are always here for you sweet girl๐Ÿค— So you are never alone! ๐Ÿ˜Š

~Hugs n Luvs ~

J ๐ŸŒ 

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Jesmcd2

Love u guys. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’œ

Kenu profile image

I know that youโ€™re mother knows that you love her and why you are not there. I believe the Lord takes care of that๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿ•๐Ÿฉ Ken

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janetb1968 profile image

I'm so sorry about all that ur going through hun xxxzxx

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to janetb1968

Thank u

greaterexp profile image

I'm sorry you aren't there with your dad. I hope that you can spend some time with some good memories of your mom.

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to greaterexp

I talked to my dad yesterday. He said he forgives me for not being there and loves me. So he at least understands

bxrmom profile image

Midgey_Midge06 I'm sorry that you were not able to go but totally understand it. Glad your dad understands it and loves you. You will always have the memories of the times that you shared together and your mom knows you love her, no matter what.


pihokken profile image

Sending you lots of hugs. Your Dad loves you and your Mom does too. She totally understands. Maybe make a collage of pictures of her. It will help you remember good times with her. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ˜‡

jimeka profile image

Midgey_Midge06 my thoughts and prayers are with you Midgey, it's a difficult day for you, but dwell on the good times with your mum, and be grateful for those. Sending you a big hug ๐Ÿค— and as regards the ms hug, it will be the stress of the past week that's caused it, so please try and relax. God bless Jimeka ๐Ÿฆ‹ ๐Ÿค— ๐Ÿ’

CalfeeChick profile image

Sending you love and prayers for your comfort and healing. Sound like you have a wonderful Dad and he understands that you are with him in spirit. Blessings for your healing and peace.

Texandyroe profile image

Midgey_Midge06 , know that we are all praying for strength and comfort for you during this trying time. So glad you got to speak with your dad and that he understands why you are not there. You certainly did not need the extra stress, sweetie! Blessings, Sandy

Yooper profile image

Midgey_Midge06: You have all of our condolences! You are in my prayers. God give you strength during these days ๐Ÿ™.

Kitsey profile image

Iโ€™m so sorry that the loss of your mom is compounded by family issues. Iโ€™m glad that you spoke with your dad. Please do whatever you need to do for yourself so that MS doesnโ€™t rear itโ€™s ugly head and make things worse. Iโ€™m sure neither of your parents would want that. Praying for peace and good memories of your mom will be yours soon.

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Kitsey

Thank u. Its hard cuz i am not on any MS meds rite now cuz i just had pneumonia. So i am doing my best to keep calm and think peaceful thoughts

Doubled51 profile image

As long as your dad understands Iโ€™m sure your mom is watching over you. Take care of yourself.

God bless


rlh1974 profile image

Midgey_Midge06 gah, my heart breaks for you! I am horribly sorry for your loss. Not just the loss of your mom but the loss of the being able to be there. I want to reassure you that there is nothing you need to be forgiven for from your dad. You can't control your lungs or this Disease. That being said, we all love you and are here to "air hug" you (thats what my family and friends at church do to me now. I can't be touched my back hurts so much from the MS hug) Anyway, we all love you and are praying for peace for you and your entire family during this not fun time. Again, I really wish they had a "that sucks button" I hate hearing bad news from those of you who have become such a huge part of my life! Please keep up posted on how you holding up.


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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to rlh1974

Thank u so much. I am doing much better now. I have talked with my dad - thankfully we can do facetime so we at least see each other - and he understands y i wasnt there and he loves me no matter what.

Ugh - i am crying again! I guess its gonna take more time to help me heal.

I have my church and my fiancรฉ is home for a week. Thank u for the air hugs and air hugs back to u ๐Ÿค—

Babslover profile image

Hi Midgey: hope you donโ€™t mind me abbreviating your sign in name. I was wondering how things are since you werenโ€™t able to go. Like I said before, mom knows your circumstances, just talk to her out loud or just in your mind. Remember the times you had and enjoy the fun things you did together. Some people donโ€™t put themselves in other peopleโ€™s shoes. Keep on keeping on. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Š

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Babslover

I am doing a lot better now. And ya its ok to just say โ€œMidgeyโ€. Its actually one of my dogs names.

I have talked out loud to my mom so i am sure she understands. I talk to my dad almost every day now on facetime so its nice

Thank u for thinking of me ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’œ

ssdw1958 profile image

Hi Midgey_Midge I was looking back at my posts and I was thinking about you how have you been. I lost my mom 26 years ago, and I canโ€™t believe itโ€™s been so long ago that she has passed. it doesnโ€™t feel that long ago. You I hope you will always remember the good times you will remember and when you go to see your dad I hope you have a great visit with him. What ever happened with your sister donโ€™t dwell on it what ever she did she will have to live will it not you. Give your dog a big hug I hope all is well with you.

Bye for now Sandra

Aka ssdw1958

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958

Thank u. I am doing a lot better in that regard. I have made peace with my sister for my dads sake cuz i know he wants us all to get along

Thank u for thinking of me ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’œ

ssdw1958 profile image

Iโ€™m so glad you patched it up with your sister I have two sisters and I know how they can be. I have an uncle who is in care for his kidneys because they are falling. He is On dialysis.But they are saying he might be able to go home my older sister is ready to clean out his appointment but I am saying let him decide what he wants to get rid of. You know being with MS you donโ€™t want people coming in and cleaning out your house because my feeling is like they canโ€™t wait until you die REALLY heโ€™s still living let it be. Oh my I am so sorry that I rambled. This just happened today. So any way I am glad things work out for you.

Have a good night.


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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958

I totally understand! It was on topic for sure vent away. ๐Ÿ’œ

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ssdw1958 in reply to Midgey_Midge06

Thanks, I get going sometimes and I canโ€™t stop. LOL

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958

I do the same thing!

ssdw1958 profile image

Have a good night. I donโ€™t know where you live but we are waiting for a Norโ€™Easter oh my goodness.

I am in Massachusetts you live down south donโ€™t you. My son 20 years old was going to leave tomorrow at the height of the storm and I had heard they were going to change flights for free good thing I saw that because he got to go out today so he is in the air and off to see his brother and family. So I had so many things going on today so my stress level has been crazy today.

With more fun to come pray I donโ€™t loose power ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ‘

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958

I was born in Brockton, MA and lived in Bridgewater. Now i am in Texas. We lost power down here cuz of the rain.

I think i still have a tshirt somewhere that says โ€œi survived the blizzard of โ€˜78โ€ ๐Ÿ˜

ssdw1958 profile image

Oh my goodness my son is going to Bridgewater State University andy sister lives in Bridgwater.

I am glad your not in the line of fire for this storm. It's goingr to be a real bad one full moon with 3 high tides.

Oh the blizzard of 78 I hope this one isn't Ike that one.

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958

What a small world!

MsGelfling1 profile image

I am so very sorry for your loss, Midgey Midge. I am also sorry for your pain and discomfort keeping you at home. That hug thing. I don't know how to make that stop. I wish I could help you, but I can offer prayer for you and your family. Take care of yourself.

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to MsGelfling1

Thank u do much ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’œ

Babslover profile image

midgey: I want to give you coo dooes on your responses and I am very glad you are keeping close to your dad. This takes strength. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Babslover

Thank u ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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