Mom

[Midgey_Midge06]

Today is my my mothers funeral and i am not there. I talked to my dad last night and he understands y i didnt go and said he loves me.

Now i really dont wanna get outta bed and the Hug is making it hard to breathe.

Happy Valentines day 💜💔

[kdali]

Oh nos 😭

[Jesmcd2 CommunityAmbassador]

I wish I had the words to make things better for you Midgey_Midge06 💕

Know we are always here for you sweet girl🤗 So you are never alone! 😊

~Hugs n Luvs ~

J 🌠

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Jesmcd2]

Love u guys. 😘💜

[Kenu]

I know that you’re mother knows that you love her and why you are not there. I believe the Lord takes care of that👍🙏🐾🐶🐕🐩 Ken

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Kenu]

Totally

[janetb1968]

I'm so sorry about all that ur going through hun xxxzxx

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to janetb1968]

Thank u

[greaterexp]

I'm sorry you aren't there with your dad. I hope that you can spend some time with some good memories of your mom.

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to greaterexp]

I talked to my dad yesterday. He said he forgives me for not being there and loves me. So he at least understands

[bxrmom]

Midgey_Midge06 I'm sorry that you were not able to go but totally understand it. Glad your dad understands it and loves you. You will always have the memories of the times that you shared together and your mom knows you love her, no matter what.

Jessie

[pihokken]

Sending you lots of hugs. Your Dad loves you and your Mom does too. She totally understands. Maybe make a collage of pictures of her. It will help you remember good times with her. 🙏🏻😇

[jimeka]

Midgey_Midge06 my thoughts and prayers are with you Midgey, it's a difficult day for you, but dwell on the good times with your mum, and be grateful for those. Sending you a big hug 🤗 and as regards the ms hug, it will be the stress of the past week that's caused it, so please try and relax. God bless Jimeka 🦋 🤗 💐

[CalfeeChick CommunityAmbassador]

Sending you love and prayers for your comfort and healing. Sound like you have a wonderful Dad and he understands that you are with him in spirit. Blessings for your healing and peace.

[Texandyroe]

Midgey_Midge06 , know that we are all praying for strength and comfort for you during this trying time. So glad you got to speak with your dad and that he understands why you are not there. You certainly did not need the extra stress, sweetie! Blessings, Sandy

[Yooper]

Midgey_Midge06: You have all of our condolences! You are in my prayers. God give you strength during these days 🙏.

[Kitsey]

I’m so sorry that the loss of your mom is compounded by family issues. I’m glad that you spoke with your dad. Please do whatever you need to do for yourself so that MS doesn’t rear it’s ugly head and make things worse. I’m sure neither of your parents would want that. Praying for peace and good memories of your mom will be yours soon.

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Kitsey]

Thank u. Its hard cuz i am not on any MS meds rite now cuz i just had pneumonia. So i am doing my best to keep calm and think peaceful thoughts

[Doubled51]

As long as your dad understands I’m sure your mom is watching over you. Take care of yourself.

God bless

Donnie

[rlh1974]

Midgey_Midge06 gah, my heart breaks for you! I am horribly sorry for your loss. Not just the loss of your mom but the loss of the being able to be there. I want to reassure you that there is nothing you need to be forgiven for from your dad. You can't control your lungs or this Disease. That being said, we all love you and are here to "air hug" you (thats what my family and friends at church do to me now. I can't be touched my back hurts so much from the MS hug) Anyway, we all love you and are praying for peace for you and your entire family during this not fun time. Again, I really wish they had a "that sucks button" I hate hearing bad news from those of you who have become such a huge part of my life! Please keep up posted on how you holding up.

Rob

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to rlh1974]

Thank u so much. I am doing much better now. I have talked with my dad - thankfully we can do facetime so we at least see each other - and he understands y i wasnt there and he loves me no matter what.

Ugh - i am crying again! I guess its gonna take more time to help me heal.

I have my church and my fiancé is home for a week. Thank u for the air hugs and air hugs back to u 🤗

[Babslover]

Hi Midgey: hope you don’t mind me abbreviating your sign in name. I was wondering how things are since you weren’t able to go. Like I said before, mom knows your circumstances, just talk to her out loud or just in your mind. Remember the times you had and enjoy the fun things you did together. Some people don’t put themselves in other people’s shoes. Keep on keeping on. 🙏😊

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Babslover]

I am doing a lot better now. And ya its ok to just say “Midgey”. Its actually one of my dogs names.

I have talked out loud to my mom so i am sure she understands. I talk to my dad almost every day now on facetime so its nice

Thank u for thinking of me 😘💜

[ssdw1958]

Hi Midgey_Midge I was looking back at my posts and I was thinking about you how have you been. I lost my mom 26 years ago, and I can’t believe it’s been so long ago that she has passed. it doesn’t feel that long ago. You I hope you will always remember the good times you will remember and when you go to see your dad I hope you have a great visit with him. What ever happened with your sister don’t dwell on it what ever she did she will have to live will it not you. Give your dog a big hug I hope all is well with you.

Bye for now Sandra

Aka ssdw1958

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958]

Thank u. I am doing a lot better in that regard. I have made peace with my sister for my dads sake cuz i know he wants us all to get along

Thank u for thinking of me 😘💜

[ssdw1958]

I’m so glad you patched it up with your sister I have two sisters and I know how they can be. I have an uncle who is in care for his kidneys because they are falling. He is On dialysis.But they are saying he might be able to go home my older sister is ready to clean out his appointment but I am saying let him decide what he wants to get rid of. You know being with MS you don’t want people coming in and cleaning out your house because my feeling is like they can’t wait until you die REALLY he’s still living let it be. Oh my I am so sorry that I rambled. This just happened today. So any way I am glad things work out for you.

Have a good night.

Sandra

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958]

I totally understand! It was on topic for sure vent away. 💜

[ssdw1958 in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

Thanks, I get going sometimes and I can’t stop. LOL

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958]

I do the same thing!

[ssdw1958]

Have a good night. I don’t know where you live but we are waiting for a Nor’Easter oh my goodness.

I am in Massachusetts you live down south don’t you. My son 20 years old was going to leave tomorrow at the height of the storm and I had heard they were going to change flights for free good thing I saw that because he got to go out today so he is in the air and off to see his brother and family. So I had so many things going on today so my stress level has been crazy today.

With more fun to come pray I don’t loose power 🙃😙😕😕👍

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958]

I was born in Brockton, MA and lived in Bridgewater. Now i am in Texas. We lost power down here cuz of the rain.

I think i still have a tshirt somewhere that says “i survived the blizzard of ‘78” 😁

[ssdw1958]

Oh my goodness my son is going to Bridgewater State University andy sister lives in Bridgwater.

I am glad your not in the line of fire for this storm. It's goingr to be a real bad one full moon with 3 high tides.

Oh the blizzard of 78 I hope this one isn't Ike that one.

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to ssdw1958]

What a small world!

[MsGelfling1]

I am so very sorry for your loss, Midgey Midge. I am also sorry for your pain and discomfort keeping you at home. That hug thing. I don't know how to make that stop. I wish I could help you, but I can offer prayer for you and your family. Take care of yourself.

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to MsGelfling1]

Thank u do much 😘💜

[Babslover]

midgey: I want to give you coo dooes on your responses and I am very glad you are keeping close to your dad. This takes strength. 😊

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Babslover]

Thank u 💜💜😘😘