Hello everyone
I hope you don’t mind me starting a post, I’ve never really used a forum before so I am very unsure if this is the correct place to post.
My Mum (69) developed a twitch in her finger many years ago which went away. She was a very slow walker but apart from that we didn’t think anything was amiss, she seemed to shuffle her right leg when walking though now come to think. Then in 2020, immediately following her retirement we went into lockdown. Towards the end of that year she was starting to struggle a little but it wasn’t until the March 2021 we saw that she was loosing muscle mass quickly and struggled to cut tough food so needed a sharp knife. She started to loose strength on her right side, with Bradykinesia and we sent her for investigations as they weren’t sure whether it was a stroke etc but after 5 months to get results the DAT scan showed lack of dopamine.
She was advised she either has Parkinson’s or a Parkinsonism and was started on levodopa. This help but she still continued to loose significant weight and muscle mass. They couldn’t figure out why. We changed to a new consultant and they were worried because she was unable to steady herself (balance) and has always had low blood pressure. They did a test of her heart and because there are no Lewy bodies present and expected with Parkinson’s, and due to her blood pressure and new incontinence she has been diagnosed with MSA-P.
Does this sound familiar? She’s currently in hospital and they have reduced her levadopa medication as they have decided it wouldn’t work on her condition, this made her bed bound and needing someone to feed her so I have been fighting and they are finally increasing it back up to the level it is at.
Her speech isn’t very good, she is skin and bone from muscle wastage and is now less steady on her feet. She didn’t even use a stick around the house before she went into hospital. She has a leg ulcer developed through them not treating her cellulitis very well but she is now in a compression bandage so hopefully this helps with that aspect. Alongside all this she has Osteoporosis (stage 4).
I am in shock at her determination in the last 18 months and at a complete loss at what to expect, what is in her best interest going forward in terms of providing the care she will need? My father passed away 6 years ago and I officially live 1.5 hours away but I am on maternity leave so I have been staying with her since the beginning of the year. If nothing else I like to think she’s been enjoying her time with her daughter and granddaughters company even though we haven’t been able to do much.
Any help or guidance would be much appreciated, I don’t even know what questions to ask! The hospital seem to have written her off, deciding she’s deteriorated again with her MSA-P and that it hasn’t been their actions to blame. I’m just not sure if she will get back to where she was or of anything really. She just looks so ill, is this the end?