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Hi all,

Not looking for advice - just need to share my sadness that my Dad is losing his voice so quickly, and I am sad that I can’t see him at the moment, and when I do see him again he won’t be able to make his voice heard.

I’m trying to reassure myself that as long as he is safe and the carers keep turning up then all is well (of course that is the most important ) - but I used to pop in 3 times a week and haven’t seen him to talk to for almost 3 weeks now I miss him

Take care everyone xx

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Rafaina profile image
Rafaina

So sorry to hear this Katy. Is there anyway you can record your dad over the phone or online?

Take care

Clare x

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Katyjonesuk in reply to Rafaina

I think we are past being able to record him now unfortunately but thanks for your suggestion xx

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chester2107

❤️❤️☹️

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Katyjonesuk in reply to chester2107

❤️

Yeah it's just hard. We are required to keep letting go of our loved ones, with every development of their condition. And now the need to leave them in the hands of others.

I normally visit Dad 2 days a week, but thankfully the carers are helping with video calls. I've snuck in a couple of times to say hi when I've brought his shopping round. But don't know if I should really.

I think I've got used to Dad not speaking - it's exciting when he does manage a bit. I'm realising how precious each smile is that we have had from him. He's a legend. :)

Take care xx

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Katyjonesuk in reply to

Oh thank you for the reply - let’s hope that our Dads stay safe through this horrible virus time

Take care x

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Mahmoudd

, my father also is losing his voice...

I hope that you and him will be strong

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Katyjonesuk in reply to Mahmoudd

It is a cruel disease for sure

Take care x

Try and get the home to FaceTime you or maybe send u a video I know a few homes are doing this my dad is in end of life care now so luckily my mum can still see him it’s hard when there voice goes hopefully this will be gone and we can get back to our family members

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