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A helping hand in the boudoir

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just wondering if any of you gents has any experience of taking Viagra or similar. I feel my ability to maintain things in the bedroom had deteriorated over the last few years and wonder if there’s anything I can do to help.

Much appreciate any help in this delicate matter.

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hunter5582

This is a common problem for men with MPNs. Blood flow is vital to the process. The PDE5 inhibitors like Viagra or Cialis can be very helpful. The daily 5mg version of Cialis (tadalafil) is effective and allows for a greater degree of spontaneity. It is now much cheaper since it is available as a generic drug.

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Jasbak22 in reply to hunter5582

thank you Hunter much appreciated.

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ciye in reply to hunter5582

Does the same apply to women, I can't find anything that says mpns effect labido

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conno61 in reply to ciye

Taking peg can lower libido.

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hunter5582 in reply to ciye

The blood flow issue is more for men; however, there can be impact for women too. See the longer answer on this issue below.

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Jamesxyz in reply to hunter5582

I take viagra 100 when needed. It seems to do the job.

It's preety fast about 15 minutes on an empty stomach.

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ainslie in reply to hunter5582

Hunter

I havnt seen or heard anything in the literature or verbally that it’s a common issue with MPN. Do you have any info on that.

Or is it a matter of co-incidence as opposed to cause, most with MPN are typically in the over 60’s group. Erectile issues are very common in that age group for many reasons including low testosterone and vein issues and quite a few others.

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Jasbak22 in reply to ainslie

hi I’m actually 52 and was diagnosed about 8 years ago. But I totally get it. I sometimes hear people saying they have fatigue then you find out they’re 78, I’d be surprised if any one of that age doesn’t feel fatigue. So totally get your point. Thanks.

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hunter5582 in reply to ainslie

There is evidence in the literature and a reason that sexual function is included on the symptom assessment for MPNs. Sexual function is complex and includes both physiological and psychological components. Blood flow/microvascular function is part of the issue for males regarding erectile function. The fatigue that can accompany MPNs can also affect sexual function. Added to that is the potential adverse effects from some of the medications used to treat MPNs. The psychological factors are equally important. Stress, anxiety, depression can accompany MPNs and adversely impact sexual function. There is no one factor, rather it is a cluster of MPN related issues that can have a negative impact on a vital area of the quality of life of people with MPNs.

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ainslie in reply to hunter5582

Thanks for posting those links, on skimming them it seems the first 4 are referring to the same data/paper. I have to say I am a bit sceptical, it says that the highest difference between MPN patients and control were Chinese speakers and with Swedish speakers there was no difference between MPN patients and control, that sounds a bit suspicious.

A quick google search on sexual issues in older non MPN men and Pub Med has a study of men 50-75 and allegedly at age 50 sixty seven percent had issues and at age 75 eighty nine percent had issues, that’s worse percentages than the MPN patients in the links you posted if I recall correctly.

I’ve had PV for 14 years and even at diagnosis when my counts were uncontolled with Hgb at 197 and Hct 56 I have not had any issues. I do however try to optimise my health in other ways including hormones.

I think maybe it’s not clear what the cause is in MPN or non MPN patients.

I post this not to be sceptical but to hopefully to convey that one doesn’t have to have sexual issues with a MPN especially those who are fit and healthy otherwise.

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hunter5582 in reply to ainslie

I agree. Just because something can happen with MPNs does not mean that it will happen. To apply a bit of common sense to the issue rather than the data, it makes sense that people with MPNs would be at higher risk. That does not mean that it will happen, just that it is all the more important to take steps to ensure that we do what we can to prevent it. There are plenty of reasons to stay fit and healthy. Preventing sexual dysfunctions is one of those reasons.

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Skidsteer565

I started using sildenafil before my ET diagnosis. I have PHN from a severe shingles outbreak along the T2-T3 dermatome which occurred in 2015. I was left with nerve damage and intractable pain. The pain has lessened over time but is still there. In the early years of this affliction caressing and cuddling were for me to be avoided which cause much angst in the intimacy department. Sildenafil helps me maintain even when painfully distracted. I can use 50mg to get desired results.

Gents the use of an ED pharmaceutical is not only about you it is very much about your significant other. So don’t let machoism or egoism get in the way of being a considerate partner.

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Plavers

Totally agree with Hunter Cialis or Tadalafil daily dose doesn’t feel like such a pressure to perform in 30 minutes or whatever, but gives you confidence. (Sorry for the commercial!)

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Solyesh

Had long discussions with my MPN specialist about this. He stated that this is a fairly common but less talked about potential issue with MPNs. He also stated that erectile dysfunction and a decrease in libido have been described in some men who received IFN. His message was the good news is that the interferons work for many people but sometimes they do have side effects and this can be one of them. He also stated that the better news is that there are drugs (not that we want to have to take more drugs but...) that can help (as have been mentioned here)...

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