Hi,I am53,male,I was married for 26 years.Last year we divorced.I have 2 daughters.We 3 live together now.I had a very very bad marriage.

[hamid]

I cant get back to normal life.

[Jeffju]

I would imagine being married for so long and then divorcing would be pretty traumatic.

Maybe you are suffering with grief and need to seek some counselling. I think you should go and see your doctor, ( I know men don't like going there !!), and see what they say and they may be able to put some sort of support in place for you.

You have your two daughters with you so that's a positive.

Some counselling may help you get through this and to concentrate on what's positive.

All the very best, Julie xx

[hamid in reply to Jeffju]

Thank you for your concern.I did not get any result with doctors.I tried it many times.

[hamid]

The problem is I can not imagine what kind of human (I mean my ex, wife) could lie to her family for more than a quarter century.

[hamid]

Can any one imagine this.This is real.

[Hidden]

Hi

It sounds from what you write as though your trust in people has been badly shaken. Divorce is always stressful and after a long marriage will be even more so, but it sounds as though you would benefit from talking things through with a counsellor. Your GP could refer you or you could contact Relate who see people about problems in relationships even when the relationship is over, so they will see you alone.

Suex