Ejaculating

[Jamjam9204]

Hi Im 23 and when i masturbate or fucking my fiance analy as am in a gay relationship it can take me at least a hour to cum. this makes me self concious. i have adhd. has anyone got any tips as am scared and anxious to go see my Doctor about this problem as am embarrased

thanks

[xsevenx]

Many partners would be delighted you last that long! If you are worried don’t be afraid to approach your doctor. I know “easier said than done “.

[Omniscient1 in reply to xsevenx]

What xsevenx said ... And I'm not saying 'its a phase' but you'll find (I speak from experience) that this 'skill' comes and goes. Your partner needs to understand 'its not him' of course.

[allenb1962]

You are over thinking things. The more you think about coming the longer you will delay things.You need to relax.

Try enjoying the extra pleasure you are giving, think of how your partner in enjoying your stamina let your mind go free and you will release naturally.

No one can come when they are worried. Its natural relax and you will come

[mascotty02]

Hi Jamjam9204,

Sorry you are going through this, the others are correct you need to relax and enjoy, I did notice that you are a little embarrassed to go to your gp, I found that with this issues a few years ago to speak to your local GUM clinic, am not saying you have anything but they are good at listening and checking and giving valuable advice, hope this helps and relax and enjoy. Take care

[Jamjam9204 in reply to mascotty02]

they told me it is a gp job not a GUM clinic job

[mascotty02 in reply to Jamjam9204]

Hey Jamjam9204, am sorry that they have not helped you and am really surprised they wouldn't give you advice or suggest options, if you don't fancy seeing your normal GP call the surgery and ask to have an appointment with another doctor from the practice, I have done this before myself and it has worked and got some sound advice, I hope this helps this time and take care

[Jamjam9204 in reply to mascotty02]

i always end up with a nurse practioner tho and they are female and want to see me face to face which a dont do that never mind when its to do with me bolox

[Worriedman57]

Try using sex toys like inserting a vibrating prostrate massager into yourself just before you’re shaggin your partner or using a vibrating cock ring, might bring you off quicker , worth a try.

[Jamjam9204 in reply to Worriedman57]

ive tried the cock ring dosent work am gonna buy a vibrating prostate massager thanks for that