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Here is evidence of me thinking I got a botched job, as you can see when erect there is no swollen area but when soft it’s as if he didn’t cut enough skin? It really triggers my self esteem because it looks so fat when it’s soft like it doesn’t look how a cut penis should when flaccid

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xsevenx profile image
xsevenx

I think you have the best of both worlds and a very healthy looking glans.

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User1069 in reply to xsevenx

Thankyou :) this means a lot

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AJman2 in reply to xsevenx

I think you are fine. This is very similar how mine looks. I am actually restoring and having that extra skin is going to help your wife or girlfriend a lot. Those vaginal juices stay in during the course of action because of the extra skin. It helps to hold in the vaginal juices that she needs to remain wet during the process.

I really believe your d looks great. Look at yourself and say “I am handsome and I am satisfied”.

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User1069 in reply to AJman2

Haha more like Man juices 😂, no women for me I’m afraid. This one’s for the fellas! 🫂

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Fookidooki

You're quite a grower. I think your surgeon erred on the side of caution rather than risk uncomfortable tightness/scrotum pulled up the shaft when erect. You have a very 'European' circ ... seen lots like it on the beaches here.

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User1069 in reply to Fookidooki

Ah if that’s what they call it then so be it! 😎

Jasper71 profile image
Jasper71

Looking quite like mine - though mine still has stitches!! And I was quite pleased with mine!

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P_I_M_P

Man your dick is very good. Why you have such a complex about the look and size of ur unerected dick, all that really matter is how it look erected. You aint wanking on flat dick nor u aint shagging on flat dick.

You shag on erected dick and you dick is good, very good. Also keep in mind that all that skin and tissue has to go somewhere when u are erected same as it has to look so puffy when ur unerected.

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User1069 in reply to P_I_M_P

Thankyou this really helped a lot :) I was so worried it was botched but I’ll definitely embrace my flaccid puffy penis!!

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P_I_M_P in reply to User1069

go into my profile and have a look what I am going thru now. I am worried, trust me ur D is a G

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nRale

Don't worry. It looks great. For me, it doesn't matter how it looks in a non-erected mood, erected is the most important. So mate, be proud of your D

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User1069 in reply to nRale

I will do Thankyou :) I appreciate the positivity on this post! Very very grateful

LondonB profile image
LondonB

Mine is exactly the same, flaccid and erect, I think the best circumcision possible. And for growers had the dr taken off more it would not be a good outcome!

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8thfloorben

You are very much a grower, they needed to leave some slack for an erection that size! Looks like they did a perfect job, it most certainly is not botched at all

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User1069 in reply to 8thfloorben

Thankyou Ben, this really helps! I just thought it looked botched when I see other guys soft cut penis and mine doesn’t look like it, but thanks for the feedback it’s really welcomed

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8thfloorben in reply to User1069

Very welcome. If it's seriously bugging you and you have movement in the shaft skin when erect you could have more taken off but it wouldn't be bugging me. Enjoy!

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User1069 in reply to 8thfloorben

I will embrace my puffy skin haha x

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Busha

That's really a killer tool brotha!

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User1069 in reply to Busha

Why Thankyou! Hopefully it’s not classed as a concealed weapon! 🤭

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Busha in reply to User1069

Then should be a deadly weapon 🍌, bra💪💪💪.

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User1069 in reply to Busha

😳😳😳🍆🍆

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drew15401

You are a grower and need enough skin to allow for expansion. When you’re erect the shaft skin is nice and snug, very neat. When you’re soft, the skin is bunched up behind the head for “storage” until it’s needed to accommodate your erection. Your circumcision looks great! If the skin was tight when you’re soft, you would have painful erections. Not to worry!

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User1069 in reply to drew15401

Thankyou drew! :) the feedbacks very appreciated

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

This begs the question… did our surgeons have some knowledge of how big we are hard when they decide how to cut?

I’m having weird thoughts as to what happened when I was asleep for the op now!! 🤣🤣🤣

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

You were asleep? Lucky! I was awake, they just numbed the area lol and made me read a magazine as they cut my skin away haha

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

I’m not that brave!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

But back to my question… mine is like yours with plenty of loose skin when flacid for when it’s needed to accommodate our full size when hard… I go from around 4” to 7.5-8”

How did he know I needed all this reserve skin?

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

Haha I guess they could just read our minds

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circblog in reply to Jasper71

There is a procedure where they can make you hard under a general, but it's not used very often (I read about one private surgeon here in the UK who does it). I mentioned I was a grower and my surgeon (consultant, 25+ years experience) just said not to worry, he'd leave enough slack - and he did. I guess they've got no desire to see erect penises all day so they just get good at estimating!

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User1069 in reply to circblog

That’s a shame. At the end of the day they shouldn’t care about seeing an erect penis when they themselves have one so it shouldn’t be a hassle for them.

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Jasper71 in reply to circblog

Wow! I guess that would make sense!! And to think I was super embarrassed about the idea of having to get hard in the initial consultation to show him my problem! 🤣

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

Aha! To be fair they could just give a viagra and that would be easier and they’d be on their way

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

🤣🤣🤣 so that’s what was in the pre-med for the anaesthetic!! 🤣🤣🤣

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

😆😆😂 I mean what else pops you a boner like that instant 🤷‍♂️

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

Have to be honest - haven’t tried it so wouldn’t know!! Though I’m thinking rest of op would be easier if you weren't rock solid 🤔

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

🤷‍♂️ I’d let ‘em watch I’m proud of my package so I feel I should show it off wherever I can rather than hide it 😊

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

Oddly - I think I would post this procedure!! I seem to have lost all my embarrassment and inhibitions when they cut my foreskin off!!

Weird… but I’ll now pretty much talk to anyone about my cock or show anyone without worry!! I wouldn’t before!!

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

Haha yep it feels like a confident booster, definitely proud showing it off in the urinals lmao I’ve seen a few guys catch a peek 🤷‍♂️ I guess even straights can’t resist

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

And as for communal showers…. You just spend all day in them at the gym now right? 🤣🤣🤣

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User1069 in reply to Jasper71

Never been to a gym! Been to Northwich sauna though 😛 iykyk🤷‍♂️

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Jasper71 in reply to User1069

Wonderes whether to google northwitch sauna

Update: googled and understood!! 🤣🤣

versa2508 profile image
versa2508

I'm no expert mate.but it looks OK n healthy enough to me.is this a low n loose cut ? How you finding the difference since getting done you happy ?

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User1069 in reply to versa2508

I’m pretty sure it’s a low cut yes, and yes I’m enjoying it far more than when I was uncut. It’s giving me no pain whatsoever unlike my tight skin when I had it.!

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Ire_cali

Mine looked like that too for a while. But it will get better. My cut is actually pretty similar to yours. Trust me you rather have a high cut than low

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User1069 in reply to Ire_cali

Haha alright nice to know, I mean I doubt it’ll change much it’s been nearly 4 years since I got it done and not much has changed in that

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versa2508 in reply to User1069

Are you happy with yours ?

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User1069 in reply to versa2508

Yes I’m happy with mine 😃, if you’re thinking of getting circumcised definitely recommend it

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versa2508 in reply to User1069

Recommend getting circumcised you mean? Or Recommend a particular technique or style?

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versa2508 in reply to Ire_cali

Why better high vs low ?

Ire_cali profile image
Ire_cali in reply to versa2508

More inner foreskin is left and that skin is very sensitive. Also it's not so tight when hard

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versa2508 in reply to Ire_cali

Is this what you got ? How do you mean by tight when hard like no moving skin left ? Is a medium cut not ok ?

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Ire_cali in reply to versa2508

Mine is high and medium tight. I have a few pictures posted of mine. Looks like a similar cut to you. I had high medium tight, is what my dr told me.

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versa2508 in reply to Ire_cali

Do you think medium tightness is the best option ? This basically in the middle of tight n loose ?

Ire_cali profile image
Ire_cali in reply to versa2508

Yeah just no low cut.

versa2508 profile image
versa2508 in reply to Ire_cali

Why do you not like low cut ?

Ire_cali profile image
Ire_cali in reply to versa2508

You want to leave as much inner skin as possible imo. Too low and lose major amount of sensitivity also rin the risk of it being to tight when erect. Also harder to jerk off.

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versa2508 in reply to Ire_cali

I've read lots seeming to want it tight AF.i know wankings not the main reason to get this.But I've thought it would make wanking so different.So to low and you'd lose a lot of feeling ? End up not feeling much pleasure during sex or wank ? I'd initially thought low looked good.but due to this I feel maybe a medium cuts a good option ?

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versa2508

So what is this again mate a low n loose cut ?

Bro dw that dick is fire your the definition of a super grower and certainly not botched that erection is good I mean your looking Alr soft and hard

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User1069 in reply to

Thankyou 😳 I replied to your dm! This app is so slow at giving me notifications!

Sailila profile image
Sailila

Same as mind.

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User1069 in reply to Sailila

Oooh really? That’s cool!

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jimfromcalif

Looks normal.

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User1069 in reply to jimfromcalif

Why Thankyou, jimfromcalif

circblog profile image
circblog

Looks like mine. Grower rather than shower, which means surgeon needs to leave a bit more skin to accommodate the erection. I specifically asked about this before it was done. It's actually a really tricky job for the surgeon as not many will ask you to get hard before the op so they have to do it based on experience. I know there's a procedure where they can make you hard under a general anaesthetic but it's not done often - the benefit there is they can see exactly how much to take. As others have said it looks very Euro style (watch some German/French porn and you'll see plenty of dicks like that)

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User1069 in reply to circblog

Yes I’m glad someone’s in the same boat as me! I’m really thinking on maybe asking him to cut more off but then I’d probably be tiny kinda sad how much he cut because I feel I lost size and length which sucks

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circblog in reply to User1069

I know what you mean, I was freaked for the first few weeks about what I thought was lost length but it's not actually the case - it just looks different. If you think about it a foreskin is so stretchy you can pull it way beyond the glans when flaccid, which makes everything look bigger.

Men can be really hard on themselves about how their penis looks, I know I was until I met the right partner who was very complimentary both in words and the amount they came. If you're with a partner now, maybe talk to them about it, ask what they think.

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User1069 in reply to circblog

Thanks that helps. Sadly I broke up with my partner recently of 6 years so it’s hard

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