i have a girlfriend that suffers from depression. She has a lot of insecurities because of her childhood traumas because the way her father raised her. We are having issues in our relationship. I want to learn more about depression and how to support her. If anyone has the same situation or if someone can help me find resources that can educate me and makes me a better partner.
I want to understand her more and be a safe space for her. Its not easy being in a relationship with someone who suffers from depression and i cant imagine how hard it is for her in general.
I feel it is not easy to maintain a healthy relationship in normal situations so it feels way harder when one partner have depression.
I feel Some arguments between us are just normal arguments or fights but to her these arguments could be way more damaging especially when these arguments touch on her insecurities.
i need help becoming a better partner. I just don’t know where to start.
I want to help her and provide a comforting environment not the opposite.