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Hi lovely people has anyone heard from Lou? She has not posted for a while or answered the chat messages so I am concerned

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svfarmer

Hi Cecily what’s Lou,s username? X

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CecilyParsley in reply tosvfarmer

I only know Louise a xxx

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svfarmer in reply toCecilyParsley

Hope she is ok - big hugs 🤗 to both you and your hubby , and of course those beautiful boys of yours , we’ve just groomed Bea and Mira so they are looking very smart, how did yours get on at the groomers last week? Do they mind going? Xx

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CecilyParsley in reply tosvfarmer

Thank you so much. I am worried because Lou normally answers my chat messages. My boys actually have had such dreadful experiences at groomers and we are so anxious with Dylan being blind bless him. A friend recommended a lady who does them at her home. She has a cocker spaniel herself and she is the warmest person, she makes such a fuss of them so Brodie laps it up and Dylan doesn’t mind too much. She is a treasure and cheaper than the salons. They smell lovely and are much cooler with their short coats now. I hope Mira Monthly is due soon so we can see how smart Mira and Bea look? Xxx

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svfarmer in reply toCecilyParsley

Ahh bless them, the lady who used to groom Bea moved away so we thought it can’t be that difficult surely , so got some good pet clippers and Ian does most of the work while I give them treats to keep them still but Mira is a star she is so good when she is being groomed, will post a pic of Mira next week, can’t believe it will soon be May, I suspect the days are going by very slowly for you 🥰

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CecilyParsley in reply tosvfarmer

Painfully slow. Thank goodness for Netflix and Now.I will look forward to seeing lovely Mira next week xxx

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stiff19

Hi cecily sorry can’t help with your post 🤷‍♀️ But just wanted to ask how you are? 🤗🤗x

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CecilyParsley in reply tostiff19

Hi there thank you for asking lovely. I am struggling on. A rotten sinus infection and this damned leg. I had totally forgotten in my misery how much my health impacts Neil. Last night he just looked at me and broke down. It shocked me..how ludicrous is that?but it did. He says little normally but he said I look so pale and he can see how much pain I am in and it breaks his heart. So I must stop being so selfish and smile more and consider his well-being too. How are you doing lovely? Any update for you ? Xxx

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stiff19 in reply toCecilyParsley

Ah cecily so sorry to hear that but lovely you have someone who cares 😍 I don’t think you should cover up for someone else’s well being, just explain why it’s hard to smile at times. I cover up how I feel health wise and all it gets me is great expectations, I can’t always meet. They just say she never complains but as I’m not complaining they think everything’s ok and sometimes I just want to leave but can’t. If you can talk it’s so much better I’m sure and it sounds with neils understanding and care for you that you will be able to do that. 🙏No update here, but no energy to chase either. Did have an easier couple of weeks but daughter injured foot so taking care of her and getting things done but I think I over did it so back seat today. Is your leg mending? I hope so and sending 🤗🤗🤗x

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CecilyParsley in reply tostiff19

Thank you, it is so hard to cover up when I shout everytime I stand and hobble, getting upstairs and down is so painful. My leg is difficult to assess really. It must be a little better as I have stopped taking additional pain meds as when I am resting ( most of the time) it is not too bad but I only have to get up to go to the loo and t is agony. The Orthopaedic Surgeon said at least three months so I have many more months of inactivity 😫I am so sorry your daughter injured her foot. Is she healing now? I totally get what you mean about not having the energy to chase things up. I am very much at the “ what’s the point stage” too. Fortunately the Amoxycyllin that the GP gave me for my chest that I didn’t need because it was asthma I have started taking for the sinus infection rather than ring the doctor. Hopefully it will sort it out so I don’t have to bother them. You rest up and look after yourself lovely and thank you as always for your kindness xxx

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stiff19 in reply toCecilyParsley

Well let’s hope less meds/ painkillers means it’s healing 🙏 I think my daughters will be a long time to heal at least 6 weeks in a boot but we go back to orthopaedics tomorrow 🙏 Do take care and hoping you feel better soon 🙏🤗🤗xx

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CecilyParsley in reply tostiff19

You too my lovely and your daughter xxx

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stiff19 in reply toCecilyParsley

🙏🙏🤗💐x

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Wendy39

Hello CPJust catching up here.

I’ve checked from Louise-a profile and it looks like the last post she commented on was my interview with the BBC, about two months ago. Nothing since.

Anyone else had a personal message from her in the last two months?

She was quite unwell and I’m worried about her now.

Keep me posted.

Wendy x

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Wendy39

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Louise

Hoping you’re OK and just taking a break from here.

Message me if you need me, please.

Wendy xx

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