Infertility Dynamics

[trupti0126]

Hi,

Here just to share my some feeling for the women who are facing a problem with infertility. infertility mean is it to adapt or go with IVF ?? being a lady it's too difficult to think upon. We consult doctors in Ukraine - almost after 2 3 years of waiting and trying we choose for IVF.

[beth_brown]

I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility and could not carry. My husband and I chose surrogacy in BioTexCom in Kiev too. It was a great feeling to have someone call you mummy. I would personally go for surrogacy and not adoption. Yet it depends on you individually, and whatever you choose good luck to you!

[winston1 in reply to beth_brown]

Its really nice to know your positive results from this clinic. Congrats for ur little one. And I would love to know more about this clinic as I want to refer one of the closest people in my life there.

[LitaJohnson]

Hi trupti0126,

I can understand what you are going through.

It's not always easy for a man to support a woman in this time, my partner struggles from time to time too. Going through IVF is often cruel, horrid and random in the end.

The most important thing is that you show your partner that you're there for her and talk with her about EVERYTHING like feelings, concerns, worries, sorrows.....

We sometimes cry together, like after our last miscarriage and even if we had so many failed cycles in the end of the day our bond is stronger than ever as we're sharing everything with each other.

I can imagine that it's not an easy thing to for a man but if you have to, do it! It's much better for both of you and it doesn't mean you are not a real man.

My partner often says that he can't see me being so sad anymore but this journey is like going on train and you can't get off anymore, until you succeed.

Try to be there for her, buy her sometimes one beautiful big rose or a little bunch of flowers or cook something nice for her. Try to stay both relaxed an focused on your goal. I do know so many couples which have thought that they'll never have a child and it did work in the end. Tell her that!

Consider to go abroad as it's much more allowed and just a third to a half of the UK prices.

We're going to go to Surrogacyinfo in Ukraine as accommodations facilities are satisfactory and everything is affordable. My friend came back with triplets after 5 failed cycles in the UK. You can find a lot of information about it on the internet.

If you have time, then think about going to the Fertility Show in London this year. We've been there last year and it was great, we are going to go there this year as well. You can book seminars online for little money, they are all really good.

All the best!!