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I hope you all are fine. I am not. Really not. I am feeling really devastated. I am just so mad at myself. After all, it's been 4 years now and nothing is happening for us. I just want to know that. How long I have to wait for the natural process before going for something special. I am really worried. Should I start taking treatments now? Should I go for IVF now? What happens if that doesn't work for me too. Where do I go now? What should I do then? Is there some other things that I should try naturally. Please help me, please. I heard about a clinic in Ukraine. It has a very good rate of success. Many friends recommended me that. I am so much worried. Please help me. What should I do? How long till I have to wait. Take care. Thanks in advance.

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Hi there I'm sorry for all your troubles. Do you have a local doctor you can see? They can refer you to a specialist in infertiĺity. There are many options. Feel free to message me x


Hello Nina. I hope you are doing fine. I have been going through infertility for the past 10 yaers and until now I have not been able to conceive a baby. It is not just depressing but it has turned my life into a living hell for me. I cannot stop thinking about anything else but the problems that my body has, and I end up feeling useless and defected. I feel like I am abnormal and everyone else is way-way better than me. So, I kinda know what you are going through. I would advise you to stay patient and calm. I do not know how have you been able to wait for a whole 4 years and have not gone for some treatment. You should get yourself checked by a doctor at first. If he allows you, then you should at once proceed for IUI or IVF but from my experience, I find IVF more effective because the whole process is done carefully by experts under their great care. I think IVF would definitely work out very well for you. The main thing about getting these treatments done is the kind of places and doctors you are getting it done from. Try to find some professional help for your treatment to increase its success rate. I hope you get to have the happiness that you are looking for and I wish you the very best of luck for your future.


Hey, Nina, I am extremely sorry to hear about the stuff you are going through. I can feel your distress. It's easy to say that be patient but it is so tough for the person going within. Seeing other people Happy must make be s frustrating. But now the struggle is the part of your story. S you have o be brave.I think if you have tried your best to conceive naturally you should opt for other treatments.Maybe some miracle is waiting to happen.Consult some professional doctors. I suggest you go for IVF treatments. They are so satisfying with highest success rate. Ask doctors about IVF and if it is suitable for you then you should surely go with it. There are a number of good clinics. Do some good research on clinics and doctors because in such cases that is the only important consideration.I personally find IVF compelling because the whole method is discreetly done by specialists under their excellent concentration.I hope you will embrace motherhood soon.Lots of love. Take really good care of yourself.


Hi, hun! You sound a bit in panic. Though unsuccessful ttc for 4 years is pretty long I should say..Sending you much of support.

I've already told my story briefly on another thread, but will do it also here. After unsuccessful years ttc we applied for help to a fertility clinic. They found out the issue was luteal phase defect and my ripe age. Dh was/is normal. As the priority of the clinic was using own eggs for ivf, they advised us going this route. Though we were given only 10% verdict of conceiving with oe. But we though we couldn't afford cycles with that low chances and moved forward with egg donation. Our 1st shot was bfn. But the next one brought us twin pregnancy. I've never regreted about using donor eggs for the procedure as I love my children as much as I can. We have only positive experience with the clinic and the process. Even if I could go back and fix it so I could have genetic children I wouldn't. I have the children I was meant to have. I do wish our next cycle would work for a sibling though it's another emotional rollercoaster. But we're in this game.

And as far as your body produces healthy eggs you can count on a cycle with own genetic material. We are not experts here and can only support and share experience. The most important part of the job depends on fertility experts and clinic you're with. We've chosen Ukrainian one because we're confident with the place so are here again for another de ivf cycle.

The very first step which is to be done - referral to a fertility specialist for testings and issue(s) investigation. Only then you'll be advised the most suitable options for you. Each start is hard - you have to cope and go on. Feel free to message me if there are any questions. Sending you huge hugs :)


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