fighting the good fight

[1949liz]

unfortunately I have lost a fight. My is forcing me to leave my family home. It’s so difficult because I truly don’t want to go. I love my area. I love the people. My neighbours are amazing so know what I’ve gone through. They know what I’m going through I have to leave and it breaks my heart, but I pray but wherever I go as my refuge counsellor has said to me Liz where ever you go, you will make your house your home. The end of a chapter in life that I never want to go through again.

I still have problems with my health at the moment. I have my leg in a splint as my leg is deformed and I have two broken bones in my leg, it cannot get any worse, surely not. My ex sent me a newspaper article on a new procedure of the leg. It’s private. He knows I have no money it’s just a way of more cruelty to me please something someone will get through to this narcissistic brain of. His.

His cruelty over the years has made me wonder how much more I can take?

Thank you all for your kindness over the years. I pray I will be a happier person. The problem anyone where I’m going because might follow me I might have to move again. The CPS are still debating whether to arrest him prosecuting him over five years now waiting. I must have more patience with myself.

God bless you all love Liz 🌹🙏

[Leaf100]

Hang in there Liz. It's so unfair.

Hugs.

Leaf

[Butterfly28]

This doesn’t seem at all right but the Courts don’t seem to achieve justice as our family is rapidly finding out . I feel for you . You can make a new home and it will be yours. It won’t be the same but it will be your space. Don’t give up.

[haverfordwest]

Please move, maybe not willingly, but happily, away from this poisonous person. He only makes your life a misery and you deserve better. Some people enjoy causing misery, leave him find someone else to torment. Don't reply when he contacts you, your ignoring him will work in your favour. Your new neighbours will hopefully just as nice as the ones you have now. Remember there is no reason why you can't still keep in touch with them. Good luck.

[1949liz in reply to haverfordwest]

It’s just leaving my friends and neighbours my doctor that’s the hardest thing to do thank you for replying to me God bless Liz

[cat3]

Oh Liz, this is so unfair and cruel. You've needed to be super-strong for decades, and now this . . . . .

I hope with all my heart that this will be your final hurdle before finding safety and peace amongst welcoming and supportive new neighbours and friends.

You deserver so much better m'love. I hope you can at last live your life on your own terms, away from the shadow of that vile tormentor.

With love (and hugs) for you and sweet Shelly. . . Cat, Xx💐

[1949liz in reply to cat3]

Cat thank you it’s such a stressful time your words are so kind and caring thank you love Liz and

[1949liz in reply to 1949liz]

Shelly 🌹🙏

[cat3 in reply to 1949liz]

Liz . . . . just thought I'd say . . .

After my divorce, I had to leave my home (and neighbours who'd become 'family') and my kids had to change schools, losing both schoolfriends and ones nearby.

I knew no one in the area and spent years renovating the dilapidated house we moved to. But, after only a few months, we all agreed that living in this house in this area was a good move ; it has brought many years of happy times and good friends.

Thinking of you,

with love, Cat x

[PurpleOverlord]

Huge hugs my sister.

[Painting-girl]

I'm sad you have to move Liz, but a new start without fear on your own terms, and put it contact with him, will be worth it weight in gold. Block his emails and numbers. Best wishes for a peaceful future of your own making x

[1949liz]

thank you for your nice words, I’m just so scared to move to an area where I don’t know anybody take care Liz