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So just recently I had a letter posted regarding support services in my community...I've spent weeks looking at this letter knowing I need support but no clue how to initiate first contact..anyway Friday just gone I had a tap on my door n it was the lady who is on the letter...I believe in fate n her knocking on my door was that..I wouldn't let her in due to my chaotic living.i. struggle with any verbal communication so thought this will be brief it weren't she sat in my garden for nearly an hour listening to my struggles with BI and is now wanting to help me find the proper support .my hardest battle was getting people to listen to my truth and accepting I need support...slowly but surely the right people are being put in front of me to help me understand the BI I have lived with since the 80s...the journey continues....❤️👍

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Dogsabighelp

hey 37..well,the fates seem to be on your side right now?its brilliant news,and you make sure you run with it love.no one gives a s***what your house looks like mate.sit down and make a list of things that you need or even that you just want,you never know.seriously,this is probably a "one shot".dont waste it,ask for everything...good luck and best wishesxx

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Survivor37 in reply to Dogsabighelp

Thankyou for your comment I spent a month trying to think out contacting her but I just couldn't do it..bless her she came to me I called her a godsend anyway I've bagged a one to one with her Monday coming so I can start balls rolling she can be my voice..I've so much to tell about my struggles living with BI it will blow her mind..finally I'm getting somewhere with all this I will keep sharing my journey into my unknown with you all..thanks again👍

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Dogsabighelp in reply to Survivor37

you know chick,just speak your truth,warts and all.its important for you to do this.can only be of help to yourself so go for it...we will be waiting to see how you get on monday,my best wishesxx

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cat3

Hope all goes well on Monday ! Xx

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Survivor37 in reply to cat3

Thankyou Cat3 it's been a long time in coming I've no clue how it will go but I'm defo going I have no thought for my own consequences with anything it can only do good things for me moving forward 👍x

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cat3 in reply to Survivor37

Onward & upward m'love.... x

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