Well I don't know who to turn to ...my son 22 came for a visit today ..
As my .partner was at mine and last time my son flipped as oh dared to cheer at the football ..I took printer etc to mums 87, where he spends first part of his visit ..when I gave him the choice ..of where to spend his time he began to lose it ..eventually getting so angry he sat on me , slammed me against a wall hurting my head and shoulder already sore from Doing stuff for him last week , and stole my phone so I could not text my partner ..I have tried everything ..he just thinks I am a selfish bitch ..far from it I bend over backwards for him .....am devastated ...his care company are in crisis ..he is moving in a week and it seems I am the only person he can rely on bit he treats me like crap ...help am at a loss 😖
He won't accept he needs help , sees me as a bad mum and I need to be his servant 24/7 and don't deserve a life , I have m.e , depression and anxiety and my health is really suffering now ..
All the support the care company said in a meeting they were offering him hasn't happened and I think he's hounded the manager off sick as he asp caused her of assault , reported her to police and there is a safeguarding on her ...he pushes everyone away it's all getting too much for me again ...
After the attack , he expects me to carry on as normal ...as if it never happened ..