I thought I was doing really well

[Reeve77]

Hi all, despite previous messages I think I am doing really really well (HGV test and all that) however I do question myself on a daily basis - things like - I may say to my Mrs I told you that before, she will be 100% sure I haven’t, in my mind I can picture the scene and even the conversation, or she may say I told you that yesterday and I will argue till the cows come home she didn’t tell me that!!! And no it’s not just the Mrs it’s with a lot of people, I am starting to think that I may in a way be going backwards as Just after my TBI I said and did a lot of strange things and came out with some utter crap (like laying in my hospital bed and then accusing my mum who is 60 of having mad sex with the black guy in the opposite bed to me!!!! Even to this day it still seems real that I opened the curtains and she was laying in bed with this bloke!!! (Really messed up I know) I am still sure that while I was in hospital my Mrs went bourse racing at Newmarket!!!!! I can even say the conversation she had with the nurses!!! I know it’s crap cos my mum said both didn’t leave my bedside!! Oh I don’t know I’m just waffling rubbish again, sorry guys, I just wish I could possibly feel normal again, like before my TBI, or maybe I am 100% over it but just can’t let it go and think I still feel like this, thoughts please x

[Kirk5w7]

Hi Steve, have you had counselling?

Talking theses things over with a counsellor could help.

I know I had pretty strange'dreams' when I was in/ just coming out of my coma. Some I can still recall to this day.

Just a thought.

Janet x

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I think what you are finding now, is a typical bi thing. My husband does exactly the same, I can never be sure what he has remembered about a conversation and he can swear blind that he has passed messages on to me when I know he hasn't. Frustrating but I don't think there's an answer, it's just how it is!